What names actually hit in a D/s dynamic
My partner and I have only recently started experimenting with BDSM. We’re both switches, but I lean more sub.
When my partner tries to take a Dom role, they usually call me “good girl” or “baby girl.” I know it’s sweet, and I do feel loved, but it doesn’t really put me in sub mode. It feels more affectionate than dominant, if that makes sense.
I think I want names that feel more D/s-coded, something that makes me feel guided, claimed, corrected, or put in my place, not just loved, like "my sub", but it's still not perfect, and I'm not sure I've described this feeling accurately, but it's just wired for me.
So I'd like to know what do you and your partner call each other? What names or titles actually hit for you, or how did you find them without making it feel forced?