u/According-Opening957

(M) been together with gf for nearly 15 years. Sex life was always amazing and never boring. Constantly exploring boundaries got us to femdom. Gentle at first but constantly building up momentum.

From gentle fingering fast fw to today where I get my ass handed to me daily. Constantly loose, stretched by her either by pegging me or just toying me with various toys.

Myself totally surrendered to her and her appetite to do things to me and enjoy seeing me loose control.

Recently expressed her desire to have someone over and allow him/her to stretch me while she guides the process. I agreed ofc without asking anything more as I realized she wanted to be a surprise.

The day came yesterday where I was wondering if she picked a guy or a girl only to be surprised yet again. She was there with a gorgeous shemale. Black killer body and a cock that gave me goosebumps when I saw it. Couldn’t believe the size and weight on my hand.

I ended up gapping after they both had their way with me while I came 4 times. It was so good we will do it again soon. This time when I ride our guest I will try to sit all the way down 😁

I (M) have been secretly into anal play for a while. I bought a couple of dildos and would play when I had the house to myself. Last month my girlfriend was supposed to work super late (well after 9pm), so I took advantage. I set up in the living room, got on all fours on the rug, and started riding one of my toys.
Of course she came home early and walked right in.
After the initial shock (her eyes went wide, I froze), she didn’t freak out, yell, or leave. She just slowly sat down on the sofa, still fully dressed, and quietly told me to keep going. I was so embarrassed I wanted to die, but at the same time insanely turned on. So… I did what she asked. I kept riding it while she watched.
That night changed everything. Now we do this regularly. She says it’s one of the hottest things she’s ever seen and she genuinely loves watching me. I’m not complaining — the sex has never been better — but I’m also a little lost. I never expected her to be into this, and I feel like we need an actual conversation about it instead of just jumping straight into the scene every time.
I don’t want to stop, but I also don’t want to ignore the emotional side of it. Has anyone been in a similar situation? How did you talk about it without killing the heat?