r/StraightPegging

Hello fellow peggers,
My partner and I have dabbled into pegging a bit in the past with a cheap set that we got off Amazon. My partner is really into it and I would also like to explore more, but the harness we currently have makes me feel soo unsexy. I find it sits too tight around the squishy part of my belly that I usually like to be covered by like a high waist undie or pant (millenial all the way here). Can anyone relate and has found a harness that makes you feel super sexy?

I would also love something that will allow for clitoral stimulation on my end. We‘ve also tried a toy that you can insert vaginally as well and we like the idea of it, but the particular one we have is really tough to handle. Would also appreciate recommendations there if you have any! Would be amazing if the companies ship to Europe!

I’m curious if any of the men fuck their asses outside of pegging. Seems like for larger sizes, you would need some prior training to take it, so do you just do it with your SO or do you practice taking dildos in your own time?

I’m 18 and the last time I pegged him I told him to keep his hands on the bed.

Lots of lube. Slow at first. Once he started pushing back I went deeper and kept a steady pace. He was shaking and I still wasn’t touching him in front.

He came on the sheets untouched. I had to take the harness off after because I was soaked. I didn’t think watching a guy lose it like that would do that to me.

Anyone else get more turned on by the control than they expected the first few times?

Recently got into butt stuff and prostate play and have lots of questions.

1. For starters i want to have a prostate orgasm and have seen lots about different toys but my question is are there toys out there specifically for my wife to peg me that could also give me a prostate orgasm?

2. I dont really have much interest in anal play by myself, i only want my wife to do it to me. Is there a specific toy/strap on/plug or anything you would recommend for that? I am ok with my wife pegging me and something that could go inside me while my wife and i fool around. Bonus points if it stimulates her at the same time.

3. Is it even realistic to have a prostate orgasm while being pegged if i am fairly new to pegging? Or is pegging more pleasurable just having something slide in and out of you?

My ultimate goal here is to just add more pleasure to my sex life. Its already great but i like trying new things. Open to any and all suggestions/recommendations 😁

So I want to be pegged by my wife and I told her about it and we tried it for 5 minutes about 1 year ago. She wasn’t super into it at the time but has since told me she has been thinking about it. She only wants to do it when we are in a hotel and have a lot of time. How do I get her to peg me more or at least give me some prostate play any advice ?

Male or female. Especially females dominating males. As an example, if you pegg, what do you want to hear, need to hear, or never want to hear again?

Asking for a friend and a bunch of males who have no idea how they’re supposed to act during some sexual acts.

We men aren't particularly good a mindreading

Tonight our girlfriend and I set our record with our 11th straight day of pegging my husband. It hasnt been both of us every day but was his ass and at least one of us each day.

Tonight we took turns on him for a solid 45 minutes.

My friend has pegged me a few times, and every time we do it she calls me things like good boy and says I’m taking it so well. This is really effective for some reason at getting me hard and making me take her deeper, especially when I’m riding her. It makes me feel more submissive and like she’s in control, so I should obey her commands. It also gets across that she’s enjoying this too, which is really hot. How common is it amongst people here or their partner/friend to have this praise kink I think it’s called?

Basically I’m 20M and I’ve got those fantasies but I think they might be too far and I’m worried I’m porn rotted.

The main fantasy is this, being dressed up like a girl and getting pegged 😅 I wanna have a women dress me up in thigh highs, panties, skirt, bar, top, makeup, lipstick, and wig and then I wanna get pegged, I want her to call me names like good boy, baby boy, good girl, and maybe a feminine name which would be Charlotte.

The weird thing is I don’t want to do this with a girlfriend only like a pro dom, but I really wanna do it. But I feel like at 20 I shouldn’t be into this stuff, especially since I’ve been into it for about 2 years already now, idk if this is normal of I’m messed up and prob rotted.

Hey yall first off let me start off by saying that I have no idea how any of this works I’m a straight guy and I’m not entirely too freaky but the other day me and my girlfriend were talking and making cake pops or whatever and a conversation came up, saying she wish she had a dick so i could suck her off I asked her if she was being serious and she was later that night we started fooling around and again she said
“God I wish I had a dick I’d love to see how you would suck me off I think you would be pretty good”
Now, I was flattered , but I’ve never done that before
I think the only reason she thinks this because I licked her thumb because there was chocolate on it while we were making cake pops
Anyway, I wanna make her happy regardless of what I think and I’m open to new things. Is there something that I can buy for us?
Like something where I can suck on it but it feels good for her too? I know it doesn’t make a whole lot of sense.
I guess I’m just looking for something that I can suck that maybe she can put down there so we can both enjoy it
She also really seems to wanna peg me to hence why I joined this group I’ve never really done it before so there also something that would feel good for the both of us. I’m not to picky on price but something below $100 would be nice.

Ie you’ve pegged your partner or been pegged. Have you shared that with your friends? Just curious

Ex girlfriend always wanted me in panties for pegging. Debating on whether or not to introduce it with current girlfriend. Any advice is appreciated.

I had been wanting it for prolly the last 12 years my now ex wife wanted nothing to do with my ass asked if I was gay when brought it up, not my gf she’s down to try anything twice, first time she pegged me with a little thing the second time we went slightly bigger and double well I think there was a lube issue so we stopped but now we’re on like 9-10 times now and I have gotten better with bigger tools lol, but I prep with a little play by my self with a prostate toy and some easing lube, and that way she can just line up and start, but like tonight I’m horny and she’s asleep , I want to try her on her back and me riding here and my cock just be bouncing around thank that’s what we will try next she’s usually naked when she does it but I think I might have her ware something incase of mess what do yall think

So….I would like for my wife to peg me for my birthday coming up in late October. We have experimented twice with pegging over the past year or so and it didn’t really go so well. So my question is; what should I/we do leading up to the date to make it go smoothly and be an enjoyable experience for both parties?

My wife is currently 4 months pregnant, and finds the harness to be putting too much pressure on her when the dildo pushes back.

We’ve got strapless but as we all know they never stay in.

Have any ladies gotten pregnant and found a comfortable way of pegging?

In a recent webinar Ruby Ryder mentioned possible benefits of pegging/ass play for veterans and others suffering from PTSD, due to stimuli to the vagus nerve. If I remember correctly it was especially linked to deep insertion.

I was wondering if the same benefits apply to people who still are in actively traumatizing and retraumatizing situations?

And I would also love to hear from anyone who has experience that support this, or even to the contrary.

Edit: corrected the name spelling.

Is everyone ready? Do you do anything special during this time. Any goals for the month? My wife smirked and said maybe only her dick gets used next month. My goal is to get it 10 times and I would like to introduce some light chastity play. What about you all?

Whenever I think about being pegged by my girlfriend, the idea of doing it in her lingerie or similar sexy clothes turns me on a lot more than just being naked. Even if I’m doing something by myself sometimes I will put on her lingerie while I do it. Does anyone have similar experiences