I’m going to try and keep this as short as possible. I was recently seeing a new “Dom” who claimed to have 10 years of experience. I am 100% sure I was negative for all STDs before getting involved with him. He showed me negative test results that were 5 months old and stated that he’d had no new sexual partners since.
Aside from the fact that my experience with this “Dom” was not great and he pushed a lot of boundaries and pressured me to do things I wasn’t comfortable with, he also gave me chlamydia. He randomly ghosted me one day, and then about a week later I started having symptoms and tested positive.
I met him on feeld and my friend who is also in the lifestyle offered to match with him and see if she could get him to admit to anything. They matched and she implied a hookup and asked to exchange test results. The universe must have really been on my side because this man WILLINGLY sent her results showing he was positive for chlamydia that were dated with the exact day he ghosted me. He told her he “will be clear in a day”
I’m honestly speechless. This man was willing to tell a random person he doesn’t know that he had chlamydia but couldn’t tell me, someone he was sexually active with and exposed to it. I texted him and asked him if there’s anything he would like to tell me and he said “No?”
I don’t know if it’s even worth bringing up. The man obviously has zero respect for me or my wellbeing.