Female advice. Green light for wife.
Greetings.
I’m 38 (M), mi wife is 35. We have been together 16 years and 8 married. She is fit and very pretty. We have a 4 years old. She basically married me and she was a virgin. I had plenty of experiences before. I have a very successful career. Because of work I neglected her emotions for a long time. Months a go I discovered she had been sending pics in g-string to a guy she knows from a lot of years a go. He lives in another state. I was furious to the point of divorce, but deep down I kind of liked it, because I never thought she was capable of doing something like that. After many conversations I told her I wanted her to have one sexual experience while she was still at her physical peak. This is because I’m the only men she’s been with. After discussing, she said this guy is the only she would feel comfortable doing it with. Honestly it turns me on seeing she is capable of doing it. Rules are it will be a one time thing only for her to get the experience. She’s sometimes been curious about how will it feel another guy touching her. She stated she doesn’t want to do anal or swallow. Everything else is fare game. She’s never had sex with a condom so I’m not sure how we will navigate that part. She knows I support 100% whatever she chose to do and she says she wants to do it. She aware I would like to know details about her experience and is comfortable with sharing.
Should we keep pushing forward with this?