u/AceNJ

Experienced SD in North New Jersey looking for one genuine, ongoing sugar relationship.

I’m established, easygoing, affectionate, and much more interested in one great connection than juggling multiple arrangements.

I enjoy real dates, good conversation, exploring new places, spontaneous adventures, and actually getting to know each other. If we build trust and something meaningful, I also love traveling and experiencing new places together.

Location is my biggest filter. North New Jersey is strongly preferred. Nearby NJ works too. NYC only really works if you already come into New Jersey regularly.

I’m looking for something consistent, mutually beneficial, and in person with genuine chemistry.

If you’re local and interested, send me a little about yourself, your general area, and what you’re hoping to find in an arrangement. 😊

Returning SD here after being out of the bowl for a while.
I had great success with Seeking in the past, but from everything I’ve been reading it sounds like the landscape has changed quite a bit. I just started looking at SugarDaddyMeet for the first time, and I’ve also heard very mixed things about Secret Benefits and WhatsYourPrice.

For those who have actually used these recently, which one is the least bad in 2026?

Location probably matters a lot, so I’m particularly interested in experiences from North Jersey / the NJ side of the NYC metro area. I’m not really interested in having to go into Manhattan regularly just because the pool is larger there.

My priorities are pretty simple: real people, local enough to actually date, fewer scammers/time-wasters, and people interested in a genuine ongoing sugar relationship rather than online only.

Curious what SDs and SBs in this area are actually having success with lately.

Seeking? SDM? Secret Benefits? Something else entirely?