u/Active_Peach_1998

we've been together for 3 years now. i came out to her as bisexual a few months ago and although she didnt take to it well in the beginning, we managed to talk it out. no, i wont leave her for a man. yes, i still love her.

today i told her i want to explore being a girl. she was angry at first. told me to get therapy. left me standing on the street as she stormed off.

but she came back 30 seconds later yelling my name and i walked back to her. she asked me what she should do as people all around us slowed down to stare. we talked for maybe 15 mins and then out of nowhere she hugged me, thanking me for telling her, saying it mustve been hard for me to do

went about our day as planned and when we got home and started changing she commented on how pretty my legs were and how sexy my ass looked leaned against the wall. i know its not much and its so small but it made my heart flutter 🥹

my gf met up with her friends recently and to celebrate her friend taking a new job offer. she's moving across the country and they decided to have a crazy last night together at a male strip club.

i asked if i could come along and she wouldnt even consider it. im so jealous of all the hot men she'll be seeing and wish it was me

Hi, I came across this sub awhile ago and didn't think it was for me. I enjoy sex far too much -- or that's what I thought.

Recently, my partner told me that I last too long and that sex isn't enjoyable for her. I asked her what she liked and she brought up a trip we took with some friends. It was a risky scenario: we had just arrived at the lodge and everyone was unpacking. The bedroom door was open, her friends were nearby, she slipped her panties down and as soon as I entered her fully, I came.

She said it was hot how embarrassed I was and me being unable to control myself made her feel really sexy. Since then, we've made some changes:

- Penetration became optional, I will always service her orally and I'm only allowed if she wants it.

- Chastity 24/7. I'm not allowed to touch myself or unlock without her permission

Reason for this post is that I'm still lasting too long. When I cum quickly, it's usually because of the situation (risky place, friends nearby, etc). I haven't been able to replicate this when I masturbate by myself or even in the bedroom. It always takes too long.

I would love to get to the point where I cum with very soft visual stimulation or while going down on my partner.

I saw some tips on here and other subs: OFM, using trigger pictures, hypnos, etc

Curious about other people's experiences on what worked/didn't. Also, were there mental barriers to cumming prematurely? Also, if anyone has been able to trigger/link prostate orgasms this way... please tell.