r/Prematurefetish

Heya! I'm a erotic hypnotist and audio creator working on my third installment of a premature ejaculation training series. The first audio is designed to habituate the user to cumming progressively earlier be denying any pleasure outside of the file and by having multiple benchmarks by which to cum so they can notice it earlier and earlier. The second creates the associative trigger of "let go."

Third... well I'm stuck!

I made this whole file about cumming in your pants. Idea was to use covert, indirect hypnosis to remove the subconscious blocks that prevent ejaculation while wearing clothes, then use common triggers like moaning plus hypnotic language for HFO and the aforementioned "let go." Scripted it out, recorded it, edited it and... it's trash. Just isn't right.

First issue was I associated the unconscious block about cumming in your pants with potty training. I don't think that's accurate at least not for everyone. For those who cannot cum in your pants, or those who used to but now can: How would YOU describe the block? What would you have to experience or believe for the block to slowly fade away?

Anyone with good answers or advice will get the files on me :)

For the 3rd time in 2 weeks I have came handsfree in my pants. This time was with some encouragement from someone on here and it worked perfectly by focusing on the fabic of my undies rubbing against me.. I think im on the road of ruining my stamina completely. I wonder if I have already passed the turning back point? If I keep this up, which I would like to do, I cant imagine i would last anytime at all of someone actually touched my penis again.

the goal is to be as desperate as possible for my wife. like borderline feral. i have found that even with all the training, the mental part of being painfully desperate for her is what makes me finish the fastest.

what i want to know is if ruining is an effective way to work towards this goal while im masturbating on my own, or if i need to just abstain from orgasms all together. i prefer ruining but it doesn’t get me in the head state i want to be in.

i’ve gotten fast times (sub 30 sec) with both methods, but i found i’m more desperate while edging. am i ruining wrong? thoughts?

been seeing that clenching is effective for being a prejac and that it increases sensitivity, but i’ve also seen that anti clenching (relaxing the pelvic muscles as you masturbate) makes the muscles weaker and easier to loose control.

i’ve dabbled in both, but without knowing which one works better, i haven’t really dedicated training to either one because i don’t know which one works better.

does anyone have experience with one or the other? how effective were they? how long until you saw results?