r/Prematurefetish

In my second year of university I was at a bar one night and saw this very guy cute walk in and after a shoot or shoot i finally went over to him and started flirting with him and he flirted back. Near the end of the night we were in a booth making out and I started filling he’s cock and was surprised by ho big he was. I invited him back to my place and once we got inside my place out cloths came off and we started exploring each other bodies. We made our way to bedroom I bent over on my bed and I felt him push he’s cock inside him which was streaching me as it was the biggest cook I had taken at that time. He’s rhythm was great hitting me nice and deep then all of sudden he pulled out and started cumming in my ass and back. I thought he was just nervous so we hooked up more and each time he came in 30 seconds. We tried different positions, hand jobs, blow jobs but all resulted in the same 30 seconds. The one thing he had going for him is how amazingly he would eat my pussy and make me cum.

Posting this (ironically enough) as a loss condition, but still thought it would be something you guys would be interested in hearing about. If you've ever got the time to spend I must say I do recommend it. Basically Wank Battles (or Wank Battles Hentai) are two sub-reddits dedicated to the aforementioned game. Its too complex to go into detail but basically you take turns passing porn along to the other person and rating it out of 10. If you rate an 8 your opponent gets to ask you a question. A 9 and they give you a task. A 10 and they give you a task and skip your turn. The goal is to figure out what your opponent likes and use it against them to get the upper hand. The two main ways to lose are to either submit to your opponent or cum.

You can see where I'm going with this?

I got "win-farmed" by one chick who would give me the task to "Stroke as fast as you can" every-time I rated a 9 or higher on an image she sent. By that point she knew what I liked and I was rarely rating under a 7. Each rating of a 9 was an instant win for me, as I would stroke as she instructed and then obviously prejac.

One opponent (the one who's "making" me write this) saw the post I made about cumming inside someone before even getting hard AND QUOTE BITS OF IT BACK TO ME. Which had the intended result of making me prejac.

So yeah, a bit of embarrassing fun if any of you guys are looking for that sort of thing :)

Is it really attractive? I see a lot of subs that are into it/striving for it, but I see a lot fewer people that are actually turned on by it. I always feel like I can hold off better during sex, but blowjobs are almost instant...​never trained, but ive always been able to orgasm without touching myself since I was young. Through muscle control and breathing techniques, but now I feel like im too in tune with the sensation, so it builds really quickly. Again, neat party trick, but have always been more embarrassed than excited about it. 🫤

I have been training with clench training videos for a long time with BlackTantra on Pornhub and other guides on Hypnotube that involve clenching my pelvic floor muscles in order to premature ejaculate.

But I also have seen people in this subreddit saying that in order to actually lose control, I have to relax those same muscles, not clench them.

So what do you guys think is the best way to achieve hfo and lose control? Should I clench untill I cum hands free? Or should I train to cum with no clenching at all?

I was with my first boyfriend for over a year, he was like 7 inches, always lasted ages and would sometimes make me cum multiple times so I was used to some amazing sex. After we broke up it was a few months before I got in another relationship and even then we were going out for a couple weeks before things got intimate.

Me and my new bf went to his after a party one night and while making out I slid my hand down into his underwear, it felt rock hard but just so skinny in my hand and much shorter than what I thought was normal, I didn't think much on it because I knew my ex was on the bigger side and it was still in has pants.

After some more making out he had all my clothes off, he was just in his underwear and I got onto my knees next to the bed and pulled his underwear down but it was so skinny and like 4 inches if I'm being generous so I just sort of giggled, he didn't say anything but I said I'd give him a blowjob another time I just wanted sex now.

We then got into missionary and he slid it in slowly and it felt ok but it just wasn't doing what I really needed to and then it slipped out and I had to help him put it back it but when it was only half way back in he pulled out and when I looked he was filling his condom.

I said "Already?" he then asked me if I enjoyed it and I had to say "not really". We were together for another 4 months, he never lasted more than 5 minutes and he never once made me cum.

Result: faster orgasms

Difficulty: easy

Complexity: medium

Time to see results: fast at first, then medium

The number one thing people want to improve on: time! The only way to get faster is to measure how fast you are, and use that knowledge to push yourself to faster finishes.

At some point, you must use some kind of legitimate measuring tool to accurately log your times. An actual, handheld stopwatch would be most ideal, but just using your phone’s stopwatch is better than nothing, though you may have to use something else for your porn/material.

The basic principle is this: first, simply measure how long it takes you, from first stroke to orgasm. Then, next time try to beat that time. Most importantly, use denial to force yourself to beat your last time.

The first few weeks you do this, you’ll have dramatic progress. But like any training, you will plateau. This is when it is hardest. You must persevere through periods of slow progress so you can push through them to more improvement.

Most importantly (and this is where most people go wrong) you mustn’t force yourself to cum. This isn’t a contest to see how quickly you can make yourself cum. This is an attempt to make the amount of time it takes to cum helplessly get shorter. So don’t use force, use denial. Make your times shorter by refusing to cum until you cum faster. Make sure all your orgasms are helpless, not deliberate.

Then, once your times are to your liking, introduce more challenges like reduced stimulation, use of lidocaine, or watching tamer porn. Combining techniques like this will make your times worse, so don’t try to beat your current best time at first when introducing new challenges; measure how long you take now with the new restriction, then use the same gradual process as before to get your times back down again.

Combining techniques in this way will significantly reduce your ability to hold your cum when it really counts. If you want to blow your load before you’ve really gotten started with your partner, time training is non-optional.

Stopwatch training is also a technique that can be very easily used in the bedroom with a supportive partner who wants to help you train. She can simply put a time limit on how long you’re allowed to fuck her. Nothing will get the time it takes to have sex down like having sex itself be time-limited.

(None of my content is written by AI. I hand write all tutorial content based on my personal experience and the opinions of other people in this community.)

A little background:

I've been into premature ejaculation for a few years, I used to train off and on but never really committed. I kept my training strictly to masturbation and tried to keep my sex life with my gf relatively normal. There were a few incidents during periods of training that I would last less than a minute having sex with my gf, but generally I could get my stamina back if I wanted and last a while.

At the beginning of our relationship, I my cock was about 6.5" and averagely thick, but I've developed a mild case of peyronie's since then and lost some length and girth. I'm 6" now on a good day, usually less, and a bit skinner. All of this has me feeling more insecure and like a beta, which has led to me watching more prejac porn and doing some prejac training/hypnos. My gf used to be very sensitive, so I had no problem making her cum quickly, so it didn't usually matter if I busted quick too. Lately she went on prozac, and it's been taking her a long time to cum.

The last 2 times we had sex went very differently than it used to go. I spent the first 10 minutes fingering her until she was finally able to cum, and afterwards when I entered her, I knew it would be over quick. I genuinely wanted to last, but the prejac hypno started playing in my head, and my cock felt so insanely sensitive. I didn't last even 30 seconds either time, which was really hot and embarrassing, but definitely shook my confidence. My gf kinda shrugged it off but didn't seem as satisfied as she used to. This is a fun kink but I'm kinda worried there might be no turning back now and I'm a genuine prejac. On the other hand, that's really hot and kinda makes me wanna get worse...

Hey everyonee!! Here I am with another training update for you all!

This time, not too much has happened since last time. Like I said, we've been focussing mainly on anal stimulation cause it's a huge turn on for both of us. So I've been teaching him all about anal and we've tried all kinds of anal play including pegging, rimming, 'massaging' his prostate, etc. I've noticed that touching his prostate is the easiest and fastest way to get him to cum (I guess that's logical though). But even with that. He's only able to get slightly below 43 seconds, which is worse than his usual time.

Another thing we've been doing which I have been REALLY enjoying is doing some 'clothed vs nude' play as I like to call it. Getting him to cum to me while clothed and getting him to cum to me while I'm naked and teasing his cock. Obviously he cums a lot faster when I'm naked but it's still really fun to see him try his best when I'm clothed. A few times, he even came to me while I was wearing a really thick winter coat and some baggy pants so it was impossible to see anything, including my curves. Needless to say I was pretty impressed to see him cumming in just ~40 seconds.

Aside from that, we didn't really improve much else, his normal time is still ~25 seconds, which is good, but not good enough. He has been getting better at cumming with only 2 fingers or even just one though.

So yeah, until next time with hopefully a handsfree prejac then!

Hi there, I have been a prejac all my life. Suffer from lifelong PE but after discovering this subreddit a few years ago I got really hooked on leaning into it and training to get even faster. I’m married but haven’t had sex in years. When I do try to initiate sex with my wife I can’t even last beyond foreplay, which probably pleased her as she really doesn’t want my dick inside her. Besides, she’s had quite a few sexual partners, before and since we were married, so she is used to something more satisfying.

What I wondered, when you hear the expression that you should ‘own your PE’ what does that really mean? What would it involve doing, if anything? I accept that being a premature ejaculator is who I am, it’s part of my identity and it defines me in other ways. My lack of confidence in the bedroom as a result of PE has turned me into a beta male in other ways as well as convincing my with to cuckold me after a few years of marriage. Any opinion gratefully received.

Hey everyone,

I’ve been exploring the prejac/premature ejaculation fetish on my own for a couple of weeks.

Never been a true Premature ejaculator (been able to “last” 10-15 mins during PIV.

Discoved this fetish a couple of weeks ago as an offshot to some other fetish I have.

But it got me thinking about how my wife - in the past - has reacted when i actually get overwhelmed quicker than normal (which happens).

when I’m inside her and start getting close, (too soon for what I had in mind and try to regain my composure) she tells me things like “just let go and cum” or “don’t hold back” and seems genuinely into it. She’s never shown disappointment when I finish quickly — in fact, she seems to Encourage it and has (at times, when I’m close to cumming) specifically told me not to try to last longer or regain composure.

Is this a sign she might be into the prejac dynamic (even if she doesn’t know the term), or is she just being a supportive partner who prefers me to relax and enjoy it? Has anyone had similar experiences with their wife/partner?