When I say we, SDs. I think we should stop feeling obligated to tip or purchase content on all dating sites. In my experience, it does nothing but flood these platforms with content sellers, when there are already dedicated sites built for that purpose.
Most women who open with that pitch are using it as bait: the idea that buying their content "proves" you're generous or SD material. In reality, it's a tactic to get you to pay once, then keep coming back to sell you more — with no real intention of ever meeting.
Out of all my arrangements, I have never successfully met someone whose content I purchased. Every time I pushed toward an actual meeting, they vanished.
On the flip side, women who offered me content for free? I met the majority of them — because they were using it as an incentive to get me to meet up, not as a revenue stream.
That's the core difference: women selling content are incentivized to keep selling, not to meet. It's a business model, not a dating strategy. And frankly, that kind of activity is a waste of everyone's time on a platform people are already paying a subscription to use.