Hi everyone, super happy to have found this subreddit!
I’ve recently started exploring a new kind of dynamic with a long-time friend, and I’m still figuring out how to define it. From what I’ve read, it seems like a mix of findom and femdom, though I’m not completely sure. It’s mostly long-distance (we haven’t seen each other in person since this began about a month ago) so a lot of our interaction is virtual.
I’m looking for advice on how to develop things further, especially when it comes to punishments and creative ideas for tributes. We already have some rules in place, and he genuinely puts in a lot of effort to follow them, which I appreciate. At the same time, I feel like I could elevate the dynamic and make it more engaging and structured.
He’s particularly into humiliation, and that’s an area where I’m still pretty new and trying to find my footing. I want to approach it in a way that’s effective, consensual, and actually enhances the dynamic for both of us, but I could use some guidance or inspiration on how to do that well.
Any advice or suggestions is very much welcomed! ♥