u/Adventurous-Bee5633

So I’ve always enjoyed masturbation and pornography. I decided as most of you I’m sure once I got married that would change. For reasons we can’t figure out sex is painful, (vaginal sex). I struggle because I desire to have sex with my wife but because I don’t like seeing her hurt. I will more often just choose to masturbate instead of making her feel pressured. We have spoken about it, she does not like me masturbating. Rock and a hard place