u/Adventurous_Cup_6969

This is a new account to keep this separated from other things.

I've been married for 10 years and live in EST. Why am I here? I am missing excitement! Most days feel like the same thing over and over again. I am hoping to find a woman who is simply in a similar situation, isn't looking to end her, or my, marriage, and just needs more. We could start with a few messages and learn about each other, Let it grow, or not grow, naturally from there. Lives happen and we may or may not be able to chat all day and that's ok. It would be great to feel the excitement of looking forward to hearing from someone and honestly being a bit mischievous. I feel like I’ve always put myself in the backseat to everyone else’s needs for so long and now it’s time for myself.

A little about me. I love doing anything outdoors and being spontaneous. Listening to live music and going to concerts. I love good conversations where we are both serious but can laugh until it hurts. I like reading and learning about history and new things. I like sports. Especially football, baseball, and auto racing. I like to cook for the people that I care about. It gives me a feeling of satisfaction in taking care of them like that. I like to sing way too loud in the car. I am sure people look at me and think I’m nuts but I don’t care. I like driving in the mountains and enjoying the views. The beach is my happy place. I could sit there all day just listening to the waves and reading a book. Taking a dip in the water to cool off. Having a few cold drinks and watching the people as they walk past. After the sun sets taking a walk where the waves lap over our feet while we stroll along and hold hands.

What am I looking for? Basically a partner in crime. Someone who can be serious and yet goofy and funny. A sense of humor is a must! Someone who doesn't take herself too seriously and can laugh at herself. Intelligent and compassionate. Confident. Genuine. Someone who likes similar things as I do would be great since that is a base we could build a connection on without having to feel like we are forcing anything. She would also know that we both have our lives with our spouses which neither of us is interested in leaving, and sometimes those will come first. But is also available and uses the time we do have wisely.

If this is you feel free to reach out. Tell me what you are missing and what you are looking for. As an icebreaker tell me what the last concert you attended was.

I’ve been married for 10 years. The last few years have become a mostly dead bedroom and lacking in excitement. I feel like I have always put myself in the back seat and others first when it comes to happiness. Now it’s time for something for me to be happy. I’m ready to find a connection with someone where we just click. Someone who is in the same situation. We understand that we have lives with our significant others but we also make ourselves available to communicate with each other. But feel the excitement of anticipation about hearing from each other. age wise I simply ask for someone between 30-55. Bonus if you were to live near me and could potentially move past simply an online thing but that isn’t necessary. I think better connections are built by communicating and learning about each other through natural conversation so I won’t post a list about myself or ask for specific things from a potential partner. Tell me the mast concert you attended so I know you are real.