What do you wish you (or your partner) had known when you started?
Hi! I (30s, male) started dating someone new a little while ago. She recently admitted to me that she fantasizes about being a cuckquean but hasn’t explored the fantasy much with past partners. I haven’t ever been in a dynamic like this, despite some experience with other kinks, D/s dynamics, and styles of non-monogamy.
I know everyone is different and the ways she experiences these fantasies and might want to explore them won’t necessarily be the same as anyone else’s. I plan to ask lots of questions, take things very slowly, and check in regularly about how she is feeling about everything. But just for the sake of getting some examples and better understanding what the possibilities are… what do you wish you or your partner had known when you first started exploring these fantasies?