r/CuckqueanCommunity

for a bit of back story my partner and I have started watching porn together over the last couple of months which is nothing out of the ordinary but she has been making me pick the videos to watch and then asking me what I like about it.

recently she has told me to fuck her like I’m fucking the girls we are watching and has got turned on more by me talking about the girls on screen and how much I want them.

This has all been a crazy experience and a very hot one indeed. I am certainly enjoying it, and i can tell you she’s definitely enjoying it as I’ve never seen her cum as quickly as when I talk about and look at other girls.

so my question is how do take this to the next step or any advice on how we can build on this without pushing too much or rushing further.

any advice will be helpful (p.s. she will probably read this)

Where are the cakes who wanna snap another woman's man and make him bust a nut to her? 😭 31F quean

We both went on a little vacation for the long weekend and he drove on the way back home. He made a couple of hints and comments asking for some road head while driving back. I'm not going to lie, it's not my favorite act of intimacy, so I kept joking around to avoid it but eventually told him he should go find a girl to do that for him. Of course he asked if I was serious, and I told him yes, just don't fall for her. I didn't know how we'd actually make something like that happen, but then he started talked around a scenario to see how serious I was about it. Mentioned maybe making us a profile on Tinder or something (idk what's good for this kind of thing anymore) to find someone to get picked up, drive around for a bit, and get dropped off once their done. Never seeing the same person twice is what I would want this to look like, ideally. The thought of that during our convo turned me on a lot actually, so I'm here asking if anyone has had experience or arrangement like that. If so, how'd it work out and are there any tips you have. Do we start online to test the water, do we jump right in and discuss after, etc.

Hi all,

OG POST

I wrote a therapeutic diary entry of sorts the other day that got some mild attention and we had quite a weekend so I figured I would share some updates.

Last week, I shared my post with my husband after we talked about some of these desires. As a recap, we’ve been ENM for the entirety of our relationship with varying levels of open and solo exploration depending on how our lives were changing at the time. I’m currently medically compromised in a way that suppresses his desire for me and takes solo play for me really off the table. But his sex drive and my sex drive are decently high at this time we just can’t satisfy each other solo as much as we like to usually. I’ve been exploring this community as a way to satisfy both our sex drives, build up our bond sexually during this temporary phase, and for me to feel better about his solo play.0

Onto updates since last week:

Because I’ve had mixed emotional reactions to his solo play, mostly on the negative end of the spectrum from jealousy to resentment, he had taken a pause on pursuing other women.

After sharing the post we had a really fun, deep, connected talk about how I can feel better about his solo dates. Basically, we had come to the conclusion that as included as I could be would be optimal for me including:
✨prefer for me to be physically present and actively participating in the play. If she’s no comfortable with me touching her then strictly FMF play.
✨videos of their play that we can watch together when he comes home
✨telling me a play by play of the play.

Again- I’m into a reverse cuck dynamic lol so I prefer degradation to be directed at the cake if any were to take place.

After our talk, my husband had a date invite with a semi-recurrent play date. Obviously, compared to their vanilla playtime, these requests were quite an escalation. She actually was quite receptive to most of them, but needed more time to digest them which is totally fair. She actually was into him degrading her in comparison to me, which he was excited about! And he proceeded to degrade her a bit from what he told me.

I was upset that night as he had platonic plans immediately following his playdate and we had no time to reconnect so I was just up late, horny, alone while the kids slept and he was out with friends. I definitely blew up at him a bit when he got home, but apologized and explained we needed to set aside some reconnection time intentionally after play dates so I can feel included and have my needs met too.

Part 2 update coming soon as the next night we went to a play party together… 😘

Where are the cakes who wanna snap another woman's man and make him bust a nut to her? 😭 31F quean

I 33f have been into cucking and been a cuckquean for my last two serious long term relationships. I loved it, but in my current relationship my partner keeps pushing the goal post and telling me that my boundaries aren’t conducive to what he wants. I told him that I want to feel safe, but he keeps on having this fantasy of me having close relationships with cakes which I told him, it’s just sex, I don’t even want them to touch me. I’m not sure, but I feel like he’s weaponizing my kink and I don’t even know where to turn, but what once was fun and sexy now makes me feel sick

We started watching porn while having sex about 2 years ago. Sometimes we'll pick a video while I'm touching her, sometimes I'll let her pick while she's sucking my dick. She seems to like male POV porn with the sexiest and prettiest women sucking dick while she sucks mine

Recently, she said that she just likes to suck my dick while I go watch porn myself. It also looks that she enjoys it extremely because her pussy gets so wet just from sucking me and watching porn. She also like this specific content creator on pornhub. I asked her why since their videos focuses primarily on male POV and showing primarily the girl. She said she likes as I stare to pretty girls while she sucks me or I fuck her.

Sometimes I just wanna say how I want to fuck the girl we are watching while I'm fucking her, but I'm afraid she might get offended and I ruin this thing.

Verification mandatory and please be chatty and so so dirty <33

Just wanted some advice if any of you have been in a similar situation.

Before we got married, I told my wife that I'm open to multiple women which initially upset her but she said she liked me so much she'd be willing to compromise.

I always teased her a bit about me being with other women but she always got shy, but now we've been married for a while she's started to open up more.

She said she has the best sex life ever (which she never dreamed of before we got married as Muslim virgins) but she admitted she feels selfish for keeping me all to herself and not letting other women have this pleasure.

Then she admitted more, she started to reveal during sex that she wants me to pound other women whilst she watches and sees how hard I get.

She said she's afraid of what will happen if I find another woman in terms of she feels her family and other people will see her as a "weak woman".

I told her it's okay and tried to reassure her and for a while the thoughts seem to have gone.

We went through a difficult patch in our marriage (did to external pressure nothing to do with me or her) and I ended up putting on a lot of weight and letting myself go. For the last few months I have lost weight and made more effort with my appearance.

After this, she now irons my clothes or tells me to get a haircut and then when I come home from the hospital she wants to know about all the women at work looking at me and she gets turned on hearing about it.

I'm all for encouraging and exploring with my wife but I genuinely can't tell is she definitely a cuckquean and is it that she has a lot of guilt or is it more likely she just says it to make me happy? I'm not sure because it's been a lot more occasions than I thought.

Are there any other Muslims who went through this and anat did you do?

Hi everyone, my friends kinda asked me to share my experience.

I am a PhD student dating a semi pro mostly amateur male performer. We met at University via mutual friends. Initially it was kinda hard to deal with but now I can't wait to reclaim him. I was just recently made aware of this term and community and wanted to share my experience. Ask me anything.

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I’m asking mainly from a life-history perspective.

How did you discover this attraction? Was there a specific trigger, a particular experience, a gradual evolution in your fantasies, or something that developed within your relationship?

I’m curious to understand the mechanisms through which someone discovers this kind of desire and eventually comes to embrace it.

Thank you for sharing your experiences. I’m looking forward to reading your stories.