u/CuckqueanAngel

Hi 👋

I got a lot of feedback from a lot of like-minded ladies on here and it made me realise that we don't really have a female orientated cuckquean space. I've thought about it and I take companionship in being amongst like-minded women and apparently there is a frickin lot of us.

I'm undecided if this will be a single sex community but I'm pretty content with feedback and suggestions. I would just request that sissies are not to join.

Of course, if the moderators don't deem this post appropriate, please let me know.

Hi guys, thought I'd share a little update as it's been a while.

Please don't take my post as ALL autistic cuckqueans feel this way, but rather take it as a personal experience.

I got engaged to my fiancé in July and actually being able to see him in person again made me realise how much I want him all to myself and that the connection we share feels too sacred to delve into that realm *yet*.

Recently, the talk of my cuckquean side has been heating up a bit and we had been dabbling into it again, talking through fantasies, boundaries, likes, types etc. We've been speaking particularly over having a male cake but this has been strictly fantasy talk as my fiancé is not heavily into men/is very particular (me too, king)

However, unlike most queans, because of how my brain is wired, I cannot separate my bedroom life from my real life and this is actually something that's really common for a lot of autistic individuals. My fantasies and sex talk interfere with my daily thoughts and unfortunately I ruminate on scenarios of "what if?" after talking about fantasies with my fiancé, like what if he left me and her pussy WAS actually than mine? That makes me very miserable, because in my dynamic, I want to be humiliated and babied like I'm dumber than the cake, but I do not want to be necessarily lesser than in physical or sexual attraction. When I'm fixated on something, that idea will brew, and brew, and brew in my head for days, weeks, months. And before anyone says "maybe you're not into it" I am. I have been a quean for 4+ years and I am absolutely soaked at the thought of it.

My partner and I, to my dismay, have decided that we have to keep this lifestyle fantasy based only because it affects my mental health. I am actually okay with this. I am a private and closed off person anyways. I would have enjoyed having a cake I could be friendly with and buy makeup, clothing and hang out with, and be non sexual with, but in the long run, maintaining new friendships (especially multi-faceted ones) is actually really draining and again, that's something that a lot of autistic individuals experience.

If we were to practice this kink for real, with another person, I think there would be secure boundaries. I think I'd like to be feeling "pink" (when I'm made to feel dumb, bubbly, feminine and sexy) and be a pampered quean. Again, for the cake to be the more intelligent one but not the more sexy or superior one. I'd want the cake to have her fun and also be made to feel sexy but I'd want her to know that I am pampered, and loved and no.1. But as it stands, my brain just spirals itself into a hole because I cannot separate the two.

We had an autistic cake last year and she understood all of this. Unfortunately we no longer have access to speak to her anymore. We hope you're okay if you're reading this. 🩷

Does this make sense? Probably not lol.

Hi sisters,

Bambi (cis F) has been wanting to get into sleep files for a while but Bambi doesn't know where to start. Bambi's boyfriend is currently visiting her and Bambi wants to be fully equipped and brainwashed into pleasing him whenever he wants. No shyness..

Bambi has also been informed she's very good at giving head and that she has needy tits..

[as a disclaimer, this is a completely consensual dynamic and should only be performed between consenting parties]

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Hi girlies. I've discovered a huge part of myself recently and that's I'm really huge on the idea of giving my boyfriend (my superior) my money. Whether that's giving him money whenever he asks or demands of me, or him withholding me from using my money.

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A big part of this is for him to use my money to buy lingerie and hot goodies for a cake or use it to fuel his own selfish hobbies. 😖

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I've known that I've liked something like this for a minute but when he joked about having access to my card and saying he doubt he'd be able to help himself, my panties literally became soaked. It's literally so degrading and I don't know why. Maybe it's because I work so hard and I'll just have him come over and walk all over that.

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Maybe it ties into the aspect I give him all of me. My time, my autonomy and now my money.

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This post is not an invitation for FDs, by the way. Stay away from my DMs. 🙃

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I don't deserve to orgasm, I just leak through my panties after a session- and it's delayed too. I'll just be walking around and suddenly, it just rushes out of me- sometimes I think I've pissed myself but no, I've just oozed out all over my soft blue lace panties.

But maybe this is what I deserve? I don't get to orgasm because I'm weak- I've been so close to one but it just dribbles out, pathetically.

I long for the day when I watch him plough a more deserving woman and she fucking squirts everywhere. Maybe he'll take pity in me, belt me up so I never have to be ashamed of my little dribbles of sexual self expression.

Hi guys. For a little while, I have suffered with hypersexuality (now I view it as my slutty superpower) and a big part of what comes with it, is quite often very unsavoury fantasies and attraction (autism doesn't help either lmao). My biggest two are:

1. my boyfriend is a recent released sex offender and I'm welcoming him into my home because I have a fetish for them.

2. him being my brother and we're sneaking around.

Both of these make me feel so pathetic, but it makes my panties absolutely soaked. I could flick my pathetic clit to these fantasies for literal hours..

Hi. I know this is not your average r/betawomen post but as someone who identfies as a beta woman, I struggle to lay my boundaries down out of fear of not being seen as a "true beta". I know a lot of lovely ladies are very happy with letting an alpha do as they please without any boundary, but during **kink and roleplay**, I really struggle with that!

I wanted to post something like "something something, make me worse" but rethought it because as much as I enjoy being degraded, I feel really nervous to place my boundaries when enough becomes enough, again out of fear of not being respected (I know beta women aren't respected but kink derives from consent and mutual respect) or not seen as a beta woman.

I hope this post made sense.

Hi cutie queans 👋

I have recently had an influx of cuckolds message me, perhaps misunderstanding my name and the meaning of cuckquean. But with these interactions, I love to toy and play with them. When they talk about their GFs/wives/partners cheating on them, I just have to shut it down and remind them that I am the ultimate cuck in the situation. It's only out of fun, I'm an attention seeker and I NEED to be very vocal about how much I love to watch my boyfriend with other women.

It blows their absolute mind that as the gorgeous, bizarre creatures we are, we can also enjoy extreme humiliation (not for all queans ofc) and get absolutely mind-numbed on watching our beloveds lose their shit in another's orifice. It's so hot to be so open about how soaking my panties get just from the thought of it, or just from flirting. Like yes, I am just as big of a beta, if not MORE, as you.

Maybe it makes them think about what they're missing? The cuckquean life IS the best life.