u/Affectionate-Set8608

Hi everyone! Baby dancer like three weeks in. It's the slow season where I live, so it's hard to tell if what I'm doing is working. We don't do floor dances, so the lowest option is 3 songs for $75 in the semi private room. I've been able to sell at least one dance every night, but that tends to be it.

I'm pretty chill and tend to talk more than be overtly flirty. I also am sober at work. I'm also older for a baby stripper (early 30's). I think with the right people, it definitely works and I've been told by customers that they like being listened to and heard and having real conversations. My goal is to have people come back, even if they don't get dances this time. I also am not super touchy until they start tipping or buying dances. Is that a mistake? Should I try to be more high energy? Or is it helpful to present in a way that I can realistically maintain, even if it's not the way to get fast money.

I do mention dances and go over the process, as well as telling them the process is the same for all the dancers. I try to hook up other dancers if there's someone they may be more interested in when I can, but I know most dancers don't think that way!

Thank you all for all your great feedback so far!!

Hi! This feels like a silly question, but I'm a pole studio girlie turned baby stripper. I'm working on my pole flow and how I can transition the way I normally move into a way that I can have fun but also get attention on stage. I LOVE Russian Exotic and Hardstyle. My club only has spin, so it's a bit of a challenge, but doable. I'm trying to figure out what I should tell the djs for music. I feel like I'm open to genre, but I want something that I can work on my musicality with. Any suggestions?

Also if you have any recommendations for dancers to follow, I'd be thankful!

Just a note- I'm not worried about private dances, I've got that down. I'm just trying to take advantage of the stage time I get- even if it's not my moneymaker.

Any recommendations on what kind of info to share with regulars? I have a private personal Instagram and a public burlesque Instagram, but I’d like a more anonymous platform for dancing. My burlesque stage name and my dance first name are the same, so I’m less concerned about crossovers there.

I’d also love a way for regulars to support me outside the club—on my terms. I’ve put together a throne wishlist, but I’m not interested in OF or selling content. I know Fansly allows subscribers, so I’m curious if anyone has experience with it or other options.

Thanks in advance!

Hi! I'm a baby stripper. I think this comes from my burlesque experience, but I feel like my costumes and stage sets are missing something. I love the way micro bikinis like the ones from AngelCandyShop look, but I feel like the look would be elevated with a robe or a removal layer. I think this is just looking at it from the female gaze, but I'd love some opinions. Thank youuuu