HELP! WHAT SHOULD I SAY??
Hello!
I'm an SB messaging an POT SD, and he asked me "what can a man expect from you in a relationship?'
First off, I hate this question. I feel like it's obvious what a woman brings to an arrangement, and I'm not just speaking sexually. Typically, don't SD's want a beautiful, intelligent, comforting woman to be there for them in all the ways he wants? I'm confused on why he even has to ask this.
I could easily say something along the lines of, "Well, I don't think there's anything you would expect from an arrangement that I wouldn't be able to provide. I'm a very light-headed and free-spirited person, so I really enjoy making the most out of life. I feel like the people I spend time with, I bring the fun out of them. In order to do that though, there has to be a lot of trust and care in the arrangement. I really want to be there to take care of all your needs, and be a shoulder to lean on whenever and however you need"
But I'm new to all of this, so please let me know if I'm misinterpreting this man. But it just gives the same energy of the classic, cliche question "What do you bring to the table?"
TLDR; So how should I as an SB go about answering this POT SD's question of "What can a man expect from you in a relationship?"