Question regarding performance
Hello all that will read and hopefully provide some guidance!
30M, 30F. Married for 7 years!
The problem : The further I age the more I struggle to maintain an erection, or sometimes get one during some form of foreplay and was curious what routes people have done to improve this.
I don’t watch porn, my wife and I take pictures and videos of each other and that what I use to get off when we aren’t being active with each other.
The last year has been difficult with us due to lives being busy, kids being chaotic, self image issues, etc. so we haven’t had PIV intercourse for about a year. We have had many many discussions together about this and we are trying to be better with communication regarding wants/needs from each other.
Now lately we’ll start fooling around and it tends to lead to me giving her oral, and that’s where it stops. I have noticed that during this time I cannot get erect as I used to during this type of foreplay, and even during masturbation I struggle to stay erect.
I’ve spoken with my doctor about it (sort of hinting? Not direct.) but I requested to have my testosterone checked and they refuse to do anything to help in that aspect, even though I seem to have a lot of symptoms of low testosterone. During this I have sourced myself Cialis though.
Which men here use Cialis, does it work for you? When do you decide to take it? I read it has a 36 hour period but preferable to take 30 minutes before. My problem is that our sex life is sporadic and cannot have a real time that we can engage in it as we naturally let it happen.