32F - Advice on insecurities?
Hi ☺️
I’m relatively new to this, my fiancé and I have been thinking about going to events or meeting people through here, but I’m terrified of being judged.
I’m in my early 30s and definitely have a bit of a mum bod. I’m not hugely overweight, but not skinny either. I’ve lost a lot of weight (over 50kg) over the years, so I have loose skin in places and a bit of an overhang stomach area because of it, which I’m reallyyyyy self conscious about. It’s held me back a lot.
I do love looking after myself, I’m into doing my hair, makeup, tan, dressing nicely etc and I know how to flatter my body shape/clothed figure, so I feel like I can look attractive clothed. But I’m also worried that once clothes come off people will feel disappointed or think I look different to what they expected. I’d genuinely never want anyone to feel deceived or tricked in any way. I’m not out here trying to catfish people 😭
Would love to hear from anyone who’s experienced this from either side, or has any advice/reassurance 💕