Hi,

I Just noticed that people are not taking it well after my latest post. When you mention what you don't want is the opposite of rude, is appreciating your valuable time. Why is this wrong?

I also noticed, people just ignore what you post and don't read. When you clearly state couples only, why do men still think they have a chance?

Would like to know others point of view.

Anywhere for a couple (early 50s and fit) to go Thursday night. Never done this before so it could be to just get the vibe but if comfortable could be more. Doesn’t seem to be many dedicated places open until late so was
wondering if their are any bars, night clubs that swingers often attend around the city area . We are staying in town so hoping to find somewhere
close. Also are any of the strip clubs known for couples , thinking that may be a good starting point. Thanks for reading , look forward to hear from any one

Hey sexy people,

Hot and experienced couple looking for some fun this weekend. Find ourselves surprisingly free with babysitting on Saturday evening.

Can be free from 5, or push babysitting back to later.

Pine or BF are our backups, and we have Purr on next weekend so being a little greedy, but thought we would see who is out there.

Seeking couples, and we can’t host unfortunately.

He is 5’10, 87kgs, caucasian and great vibes. Loves to entertain and host and a bit of a pleasure dom.

She is 5’7, amazing curves with enhancements, a bombshell with the best personality and extremely frisky. She likes guys 5’10 plus who take the lead.

No one is shy here, we aren’t first timers and we are keen on using the babysitting for a fun night.

If you’re a couple, free this weekend and want to meet up or head out drop us a message.

Xx

Repost with added info!

Hey legends, we are a married alternative couple in our early thirties. We are pretty new to the life style but have really enjoyed including others for MFM, FFM or 4somes with other couples!

She is 30, 5’10, 60kg, very fit and heavily tattooed. He is 6’4, 87kg, solid broad build and heavily tattooed. Both with dark features blue eyes

We are not after bulls or for the M to be cucked, this is purely kink exploring with having extras join us while we play.

We are ideally looking for others for are of a similar age bracket (25-35) Our ideal play partners would be alternative, fit, respectful and tattooed. We don’t enjoy extremely dom or rough men, but having a man that can take direction on how to please my wife with me. We are not into ONS and would prefer ongoing FWBs that we can enjoy the lifestyle with.

We also really enjoy being watched and frequent BFWB and pineapples, so if you are into watching we are your people!

If this interests any of you or you love to dress up for good food and flirty banter please reply to this post or DM me, we are kinda picky with who we bring in so if you don’t match our vibe it’s no hard feelings. Our ideal play partners would be alternative, fit, respectful and tattooed.

We are located in Brunswick 🫶

Young couple looking for some fun people to meet, chat and hopefully play with at BFWB! It's our first time going here, but been to Shed 16 a few times.

About us:
- M26 (Straight) Sweet, dom leaning switch who loves to make women quiver 🥵 Caucasian with thick thighs and lovely eyes
- F27 (Bisexual) Bratty attention whore and a sub leaning switch with a sexy smile wanting to explore and be used. Caucasian, curvy, tattooed

We'd be especially interested in finding a girl for F (or both) to play with 🤭 couples also very welcome!!

We'd love to chat if you're interested in a fun, hot night x

With this group now over 40,000 members we’re getting more and more posts daily.
We’re having to delete more and more posts, and getting more bots/fake accounts popping up.
I feel like we’re one of the better pages for getting rid of the fakes pretty quickly however the mods can get busy some days so it make take us a few hours at the most to get rid of them.
One question I have though is regarding R4R posts.
The one thing we ask from everyone is when doing r4r’s is you put some details in, a basic description about yourself, interests, what you are into etc, but also some details on what you are looking for. This will not only weed out the time wasters, but also people that don’t fit the criteria. And will help people find exactly what they are looking for without multiple back and fourth messages.
Especially if you are a single guy looking for a F! Put some effort in please!! It will benefit everyone!

Or are we asking way too much of people!?? Should we relax the rules for r4r posts??

48M 45F visiting for the weekend from Wellington. Looking for playmates to make our trip extra enjoyable.

We are both professionals, and are a long term couple, with extra spice. Not models but she has a fabulous figure and he can make you melt with his eyes and his dirty talk. We are both bi and are only looking for bi, bi-curious, or heteroflexible partners, MF or F only.

You must be comfortable playing with both of us. We like all kinds of people, prefer 30s to 50s and able to hold a conversation online and in person. You need to be prepared to share photos including face, and we'll do the same.

We have had a few swinging experiences with singles and couples and are very keen for more. We're staying in a CBD Airbnb apartment Thurs-Sun. We could meet late evening or daytime.

We each love watching the other playing and having fun. We like to chat online ahead of meeting, then meet for a quick drink before playing straight afterwards. We're not in town for long so don't have time for multiple dates 😊

Also keen on advice re what apps people are hanging out on in Melbourne these days ☺️

Hi there, 30M and 25F first time married asian couple looking to dive into the swinging world. We have always fantasised having sex with other couples and swapping partners when we have sex. What are some friendly swing clubs in Melbourne for first time couples? What are the people there like? We would like some recommendations and want to know if there’s any restrictions in these clubs? We are looking to have sex next to couples then slowing swap partners later on.

Hello Melbourne

About us.
38, male, 1,80 cm (straight but more queerish than just straight, even I look very straight), European, fit but not a 6 pack.
33 female , 158 cm blue eyes, curly brunette hair, petite with D boobs, bisexual. Sooo sensual.
ENM and we date as well seperataly. So not classic swingers vibe.
We are experienced in play spaces and home spaces,she needs mental stimulation not just cardio.

What I’m after:
Looking for couples, females and I don’t mind guys if it fit what we are after.
No looking after particular body types, it’s more about the energy and the activity we want to do. Experienced in the hanging bit, open to newcomers for the other bits.

Want I want to organise:
- Party and after party -
We go out to a good techno/house, we have fun there, we mingle, we get to know each other, we dance, we kiss and we get loose.
Than we move to The after party in a curated space, with curated vibes and curated music.
Set and settings are important. We may host, we may rent a place, someone may host. Details to be confirmed and decided all together.
And this is not just a 4 hour evening, it’s a journey.

I would call it, operation Kit Kat.

If interested you, please message me for a good vibe check, tell me what you like about this, why you are a good fit for this particular scenario and bring ideas. we can move from there :)
Ideally, I want to organise something like this every 4/6 months. New to Melbourne, here for the fun stuffs

Divorced teacher who's friendly, easygoing, and always up for a good conversation. I love meeting new people, sharing laughs, and making genuine connections. Life's too short to be boring, so I'm hoping to find someone fun, confident, and adventurous to chat with and see where things naturally lead. If you're looking for a warm, unattached woman with a playful personality, feel free to send me a message!

Hi,

My wife and I are complete newbies to the lifestyle as a couple. We're thinking about visiting a venue just to get a feel for the vibe and some exposure, without any pressure to play.

Two places that keep coming up are Between Friends Wine Bar and Shed 16. I'd love a bit of info on both.

Out of the two, which one would you recommend for a couple that's brand new to this and just wants to observe on their first visit?

Also, quick questions:

• Are there private rooms available?
• How clean are the venues generally?
• Is it easy to book on the same night, or do we need to book ahead?
• What’s the typical crowd like (age range, mix of couples/singles, atmosphere)?
• Which are the best days/nights to visit for a more relaxed, newbie-friendly experience?

Any advice or insights would be really appreciated! Thanks 😊

I saw a post in Locanto about gangbang. Husband organising gangbang for his wife and asking a small reward to participate. The post looks genuine. All must wear condoms.

But my concern is he never asked about a health check or no details about me. Not even a photo. He shared the address and mentioned that the door will open at a particular time. All he mentioned is he will take videos where I can wear a mask. But concern me most is a lot of guys will be there and no asking about health is a big red flag. Has anyone done this before?

Hi everyone, my wife (45) and I (43) are looking to check out an event tonight.

We are thinking either shed 16 or between friends. We’ve been to a couple of clubs in Perth but none in Melbourne yet.

Is anyone able to tell me what the general differences are between the two?

Or alternatively if anyone can recommended something else on tonight?

Thanks

Hello there, I am a 38 year old petite female looking for a tall gentleman aged between 40-55 for MFM with my husband. A man who likes to take the lead, is confident and loves conversation. A dominant man who also has a gentle soft side, who knows when to stroke my hair rather than pull it. I am 5ft2, 51kgs. My husband is 6ft4, 120kgs. So ideally looking for someone quite masculine/manly so I can feel tiny inbetween 🙊 If you’re not tall but feel like you’d be able to bring some fun, don’t let that stop you from saying Hi.

Happy to share photos once connected. Or feel free to check out my RHP-BeeandP.

Let’s chat! X

📢 Edit :

Before responding ... PLEASE read the ad! I will know if you havent read the ad. If you send cock pics, you will be blocked.

When : 11 July

Time : 4:30pm

Location : Melbourne CBD

Who : size 12, very friendly and bratty, sexy and gorgeous, physically and personality as well! Seriously fun personality!

She is looking for 5 guys for the gangbang as well as a couple of voyeurs.

She has asked for some pictures and videos. Please note that masks will be available. But I normally actively avoid faces anyway. And the video is not ongoing. I will be selectively filming.

There is a possibility that there will be a second girl present for some girl/girl action to start. Still waiting for the second girl to decide. If the second girl comes, please note the first 30 minutes will be just girl/girl.

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##CRITERIA

• Ideal guy is a bearded lumberjack type guy, but just a fantasy man, not a pre-requisite

• No Indians

• Patient and non pushy

• Friendly and respectful of all parties involved

• Not shy and can work with other guys (this is not a Bi event, all attention will be on her, but it is inevitable for swords to cross)

• Reliable and will show up if you book in

• Can follow instructions and respect ALL her boundaries or fantasy requests

• Drug and disease free

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##RULES

###She doesn't like/want -

❌ kissing

❌ slapping

###She likes -

✅ DP

✅ DVP

✅ airtight

Please shower before coming (or shower also available on site for those coming straight from work). Mouthwash, condoms and lube will also be available.

Please note that costs applies.

If you meet all the criteria, please message me with "I meet all the criteria" together with the title of this ad as your first message. If shortlisted, you'll be added to a Discord group.

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##Standard terms (cross-outs do not apply for this event)

• All my events are CONSENT CENTRIC (first and always, voluntary and revokable). Anyone in my regulars group will tell you that "consent" is NOT just a buzzword for my group and I.

• No asking for contact details etc. If she wants to share, she will. Asking often pressures a girl who is too nice to say no or who doesn't know how to respond. If you ask, I will toss you out. If you need contact details, come through me after the event and I will pass on the request

• You are not her Dom, don't try to be. She isn't looking. She is NOT a sub

• Must be happy to share pic

• If you choose to take offence at anything I have said or if you choose to take things personally, don't bother telling me about it, or posting your objections below. I frankly don't care, and my duty is to her and ensuring she gets the session she wants. I organise HER fantasy, not yours.

• Nothing above is about racism. I organise a lot of fantasies/gangbangs for women and couples, so there will be others in the future who have different requests/requirements/restrictions. Eg i know there is a past Miss Nude Australia who prefers Asians. So please don't take this list of requirements to be the same for all my events.

• Please do not message me asking to be kept in the loop for future events. ONLY someone who has attended at least one or more of my events AND behaved appropriately will be added to my regulars group. No, you won't be the exception. I need to ensure reliability and that you are respectful. You telling me that you are makes no difference.

• If you are going to ghost me after being added to the group for this event and I have not heard from you within 12 hours of me messaging you, please don't bother wasting my time and yours.

* PLEASE DO NOT be judgemental. I know what time the event is, yes I know what some of you think of the available talent during working hours. Guess what? I have been organising events for more than 15 years. I know what I am doing and I know how to vet. So please don't bother responding with snarky comments thinking you know better.

Always questions here about this weekly event. Last night was the queerest queer night I've been to, and it was great. Lots of femmes (trans and cis), lots of queer cuties of the guy variety, and lots of queer vibes. Shoutout to the bi guy we met and shared time with. Anyway, was a good amount of busy with a great mix of people. If you are considering going and not sure what to expect then it's possible to go slow and socially. It was great to see it be back in the queerer end of experiences.

Hello everyone! Just putting the feelers out to see who/how many are thinking to head to pinebar tonight?
We are going (F35 M37) and love a chat, drink and a bit of banter!
Looking forward to chatting with some likeminded humans and seeing where the night takes us!
If you’re going drop a comment below or tell us something you have liked from a night out at pinebar?!
😘

Let's get something straight: I'm bratty because most men are disappointing and I've learned to entertain myself. If you're 35+ and actually know how to handle attitude without getting butthurt, you might be different. Might. I'm clean with results to prove it, I can host in my space or come to yours, but I'm not driving an hour for someone who chokes under pressure. I want someone who can grab me by the throat (consensually, obviously) and make me behave because they're actually impressive, not because I feel obligated. Bring your A-game. I've seen too many Ls to pretend yours is special. again, Tonight only. 35+, clean, and mentally prepared for someone who doesn't cooperate. I can host or travel. Don't message if you're sensitive—I don't have time to coddle your ego while you're trying to dominate me.

25f 32m Heading to Purr for our third time, weve had a blast the last 2 times, but found it difficult to connect at the event so wish we had have spoken to people prior to going.

If your planning on attending and would like to meet a fun young couple send us a message and we can catch up for a drink and dance!

We're open to hearing from couples and singles so dont be shy.

Hey guys, just after recommendations for a 55M and 52F married couple who are going through a marriage renaissance after 23 years. Sexually we have gone from vanilla to wild due to a reset and now talking openly and honestly without prejudice. Spicy discussions are now a thing, revealing our fantasies have been revealed, using some moderate porn to reveal our turn ons, toys are now a big thing, masturbation unveiled. Anyway voyeurism has been a topic of interest for both of us. We ticked off the spicy vids and pics to each other, we had sex fully naked against a balcony railing at a promenade hotel which seemed easy. We’ve also thrown in a spicy couples massage with another female! These aren’t random last minute things, we discuss at length after I tend to do most of the in depth education. Every step has been exciting and positive but it’s certainly hasn’t gone without some apprehension and sometimes even embarrassment revealing our thoughts. Anyway we have discussed over a period of time what the next stage is for voyeurism and seems it’s at either being watched or watching during sex. I’ve suggested maybe a “lifestyle” club could be a consideration which seems crazy us even discussing this 🤣
Anyway I’ve googled options like Between Friends Wine Bar, Pineapples Lifestyle Bar and now looking into Shed 16.
Our discussions and boundaries are the following;
Feeling comfortable and actually going.
Not being harassed by slimy guys.
Being able to quietly sit and have a drink and observe.
Chatting to other couples or single woman without it being juvenile talk.
Feeling safe.
Possibly if all things being positive venture into the spicy area to have a look.
Our discussions have been having sex together close to others but always being together.
Once more only if things were crazy comfortable I’d say they’d be a remote chance that my wife might consider another female if that was a wild possibility.
Anyway maybe I should just post this before it becomes a novel if not already is🤦🏻‍♂️
The main question is what people’s thoughts are on what to explore next I suppose? Thanx in advance