Melbourne pubs/bars where lifestyle people actually socialise?
My wife (43F) and I (44M) have recently decided we’d like to start exploring the lifestyle together, but we’re not particularly interested in jumping straight into a swingers club or play event.
We’re looking for something much more ordinary to start with a pub, bar, queer-friendly venue or particular night where open-minded/lifestyle people tend to socialise and where meeting people organically wouldn’t feel completely out of place.
For context, she’s interested exclusively in women outside our marriage, while I’m interested in both women and men. We’re not looking to change those boundaries. We’d just like to go somewhere together, have some drinks, meet people, flirt if it happens naturally and get a feel for the community without any expectation that the night has to lead anywhere.