u/Condemned_Northman

Expressions of Interest – Dandenong Ranges Swingers & Kink Social 🌿

We're exploring the idea of hosting a monthly after-hours Swingers & Kink/BDSM Munch & Social in a beautiful, private café nestled in the Dandenong Ranges, nights will alternate between kink/bdsm And Swingers so we can incorporate everyone at different times for those who arnt interested in the cross over.

Think cosy vibes, great conversations, good coffee, tasty snacks, and the chance to meet like-minded people in a welcoming, judgement-free environment.

✨ What to expect:

• A relaxed, no-play social space to connect, network, and make new friends.

• Some evenings dedicated purely to socialising, while others will feature workshops, demonstrations, discussions, or Q&A sessions covering a range of topics—from beginner-friendly introductions through to more advanced skills and techniques.

• Opportunities to learn, ask questions, share experiences, and explore interests in a safe, respectful setting.

Attendance will be strictly capped at 30–40 guests, with pre-booking essential to help keep the atmosphere comfortable and intimate.

☕ Drinks and snacks will be available on a pay-as-you-go basis.

Our priority is creating a space where everyone feels comfortable. Dedicated consent and safety volunteers will be on hand throughout the evening to help newcomers, answer questions, ease first-time nerves, and support respectful social etiquette.

Whether you're completely new, experienced, curious, or simply looking to expand your social circle within the lifestyle, we'd love to hear from you.

💜 We'd also love your input!

What would make this event worth attending for you? Are there any workshop topics, demonstrations, or discussion ideas you'd like to see?

Drop your thoughts below or feel free to send me a DM. We'd love to help create something special for our local community.

Expressions of Interest – Dandenong Ranges Swingers & Kink Social 🌿

Note: This wont be shed specific or related to shed16

We're exploring the idea of hosting a monthly after-hours Swingers & Kink/BDSM Munch & Social in a beautiful, private café nestled in the Dandenong Ranges, nights will alternate between kink/bdsm And Swingers so we can incorporate everyone at different times for those who arnt interested in the cross over.

Think cosy vibes, great conversations, good coffee, tasty snacks, and the chance to meet like-minded people in a welcoming, judgement-free environment.

✨ What to expect:

• A relaxed, no-play social space to connect, network, and make new friends.

• Some evenings dedicated purely to socialising, while others will feature workshops, demonstrations, discussions, or Q&A sessions covering a range of topics—from beginner-friendly introductions through to more advanced skills and techniques.

• Opportunities to learn, ask questions, share experiences, and explore interests in a safe, respectful setting.

Attendance will be strictly capped at 30–40 guests, with pre-booking essential to help keep the atmosphere comfortable and intimate.

☕ Drinks and snacks will be available on a pay-as-you-go basis.

Our priority is creating a space where everyone feels comfortable. Dedicated consent and safety volunteers will be on hand throughout the evening to help newcomers, answer questions, ease first-time nerves, and support respectful social etiquette.

Whether you're completely new, experienced, curious, or simply looking to expand your social circle within the lifestyle, we'd love to hear from you.

💜 We'd also love your input!

What would make this event worth attending for you? Are there any workshop topics, demonstrations, or discussion ideas you'd like to see?

Drop your thoughts below or feel free to send me a DM. We'd love to help create something special for our local community.

How did everyone find last night?

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It seemed a great crowd but was very quiet

Was great to see alot of regular faces as well as quite alot of new faces!

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We had an absolute blast of a night and some great social conversations!

Who’s Causing Trouble Saturday at Shed16?

putting out feelers for a night of devious fun.

If you’ve seen us around before… you probably already know the vibe

About Us:

Happily married couple, early 30s

She’s bisexual, sexy curves, tatts, and an alternative style

He’s average build, long dreads, beard, fairly tattooed

We’re big on chemistry, connection, and mutual respect. We love a good vibe, solid communication, and respect of boundaries.

You’ll usually find us in the dungeon (especially checking out that newly built one), often enjoying some impact play and maybe even putting on a bit of a show

Important bits:

No single males

Couples & females only

Big on boundaries, communication, and staying drama-free

If you spot us on the night, don’t be shy — come say hey. Or feel free to slide into the DMs beforehand or even to arrange a meet another time.

Who’s Causing Trouble Saturday at Shed16?

putting out feelers for a night of devious fun.

If you’ve seen us around before… you probably already know the vibe

About Us:

Happily married couple, early 30s

She’s bisexual, sexy curves, tatts, and an alternative style

He’s average build, long dreads, beard, fairly tattooed

We’re big on chemistry, connection, and mutual respect. We love a good vibe, solid communication, and respect of boundaries.

You’ll usually find us in the dungeon (especially checking out that newly built one), often enjoying some impact play and maybe even putting on a bit of a show

Important bits:

No single males

Couples & females only

Big on boundaries, communication, and staying drama-free

If you spot us on the night, don’t be shy — come say hey. Or feel free to slide into the DMs beforehand or even to arrange a meet another time.

Who are we seeing down at Taboo Tuesday this week?

The vibe and energy has been so great on tuesdays with heaps of single F and MF couples attending as well as new faces, we where told last week was quite but was great atmosphere and attendees looking forward to seeing everyone tomorrow!

If your heading in feel free to reach out to us

Just letting everyone know i have updated the user flairs to add in different couple types and single M or single F to help people find profiles that match along side post flairs.

Heaven or Hell… your choice 😈

Melbourne… who’s ready to misbehave a little?

On May 9, we’re turning up the tension and bringing out your playful side for a night where boundaries blur and chemistry takes over.

Angels & Demons is all about stepping into that side of you that doesn’t always come out to play…

sweet, sinful… or a little bit of both.

✨ Dress to tempt (theme dress not necessary but encouraged)

✨ Play your part

✨ Connect, flirt, and see where the night leads

⏰ From 8PM

💸 Couples: $70

💋 Single Ladies: $30

🔥 Single Males: $150 - must prebook 20 limited spots.

Good vibes, respectful play, and plenty of opportunity to meet like-minded people 😉

Some will behave… most won’t 😏

So tell us… are you bringing the halo, or the horns?

Been a bit quiet in this sub lately swingers always hibernate in the colder months, who is heading down this week?

What nights are you attending are you a couple M or F drop a comment see if you can spark some connections before heading in

We'll be there saturday, from those we know its looking to be a really good night MF 35/32 for us!

As you've all seen we are bringing back the events megathread i have already had pineapples lifestyle bar and Club gemini reach out and ill be updating shed16 and wet on Wellington if your currently running an event and your on

This list already please PM me so we can get the new one started.

List - https://www.reddit.com/r/Melbourneswingers/s/qk3NFbC8Pu

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Hey everyone,

We’re a married male/female couple in our early 30s looking to connect with a like-minded female (ideally) or another couple who are interested in more than just a one-off meet.

We’d love to start things casually — think dinner, drinks, bowling, mini-golf, or something equally fun and low-pressure. We’re very open to ideas, so it doesn’t have to be anything specific — just something that lets everyone relax, chat, and get to know each other properly.

A bit about us:

Male is straight

Female is bisexual

We both really value good energy, communication, and mutual respect

What we’re looking for is something ongoing and meaningful — not just in the bedroom, but outside of it too. We want to build genuine friendships where everyone feels comfortable together, whether that’s as a group or individually. If things naturally progress into play, great — but connection always comes first for us.

We do frequent sheds/venues, so if the vibe is right, we’d absolutely be open to eventually heading out together and just enjoying a fun night with good company.

We’re definitely not into the “wham-bam, thank you ma’am” dynamic. We’re here for good vibes, clear communication, respect for boundaries, and building something that lasts beyond a single interaction.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to reach out — keen to chat and see where things go