u/Condemned_Northman

Hey everyone,

We’d like to take a moment to remind all members that Shed16_ is intended to be a positive, inclusive and welcoming community.

This subreddit is ***not*** the place to air personal grievances, settle disputes, attack other users, or bring private issues into the community. It is also not a platform to make malicious, defamatory or targeted posts about individuals, businesses or venues.

Recently, we've had an increase in reports and Modmail regarding harassment, hostile interactions, and posts or comments that are not in keeping with the inclusive environment we're trying to maintain.

**We want to make this very clear:**

**It does not matter whether someone is straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or identifies in any other way. It does not matter their gender, sexuality, race or background. Everyone who participates respectfully deserves to be treated with the same basic respect.**

**You don't have to agree with everyone. You don't have to be attracted to everyone. You don't have to share the same interests, preferences or lifestyle choices.**

But you do need to remain civil and respectful.

Personal attacks, harassment, discrimination, malicious accusations, attempts to publicly shame others, or using the subreddit to "air your dirty laundry" will not be tolerated.

***Going forward, we will not necessarily be issuing warnings for deliberate malicious or targeted behaviour. Depending on the circumstances, posts or comments may be removed and bans may be issued at the moderation team's discretion.***

If you have a genuine issue involving another community member, please bring it to the moderators through ***Modmail*** rather than turning it into a public dispute.

We're all adults, and this community works best when people can communicate, socialise and participate without unnecessary hostility or drama.

Keep it civil. Keep it positive. Keep it welcoming.

— Shed16 Mod Team

Hey everyone,

We’d like to take a moment to remind all members that Melbourne Swingers is intended to be a positive, inclusive and welcoming community.

This subreddit is not the place to air personal grievances, settle disputes, attack other users, or bring private issues into the community. It is also not a platform to make malicious, defamatory or targeted posts about individuals, businesses or venues.

Recently, we've had an increase in reports and Modmail regarding harassment, hostile interactions, and posts or comments that are not in keeping with the inclusive environment we're trying to maintain.

We want to make this very clear:

It does not matter whether someone is straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or identifies in any other way. It does not matter their gender, sexuality, race or background. Everyone who participates respectfully deserves to be treated with the same basic respect.

You don't have to agree with everyone. You don't have to be attracted to everyone. You don't have to share the same interests, preferences or lifestyle choices.

But you do need to remain civil and respectful.

Personal attacks, harassment, discrimination, malicious accusations, attempts to publicly shame others, or using the subreddit to "air your dirty laundry" will not be tolerated.

Going forward, we will not necessarily be issuing warnings for deliberate malicious or targeted behaviour. Depending on the circumstances, posts or comments may be removed and bans may be issued at the moderation team's discretion.

If you have a genuine issue involving another community member, please bring it to the moderators through Modmail rather than turning it into a public dispute.

We're all adults, and this community works best when people can communicate, socialise and participate without unnecessary hostility or drama.

Keep it civil. Keep it positive. Keep it welcoming.

— Melbourne Swingers Mod Team

🌿 Dandenong Ranges Swingers Social & BDSM Munch 🌿 Curious? Nervous? Excited? We’ve got you. 😉 After an incredible amount of interest from the community, we’re excited to officially announce the very first Dandenong Ranges Swingers Social & BDSM Munch!

Whether you’re swinger-curious, kink-curious, or simply looking to meet genuine, like-minded people, this is the perfect chance to step into the community in a relaxed, friendly and no-pressure environment. One thing we’d like everyone to know is that every event will be a little different. Some socials will focus on swinging, some will be kink/BDSM focused, and others will blend both worlds. That way, everyone has events they can feel comfortable attending, regardless of where they sit on the spectrum.

🍍 Our First Event: Introduction to Swinging & BDSM/Kink Everyone starts somewhere... and this is yours. This evening is designed specifically for those who are new to the lifestyle or thinking about taking that first step. Come along, meet some friendly faces, ask the questions you’ve always wanted to ask, and discover what the community is really like—without the myths, awkwardness or pressure. We’ll be chatting about: 💜 Lifestyle expectations vs reality 💜 Consent, communication and boundaries 💜 The do’s (and definitely the don’ts!) 💜 How to respectfully approach other people 💜 Making genuine connections 💜 Plenty of opportunities to ask questions and join the conversation This is strictly a social/munch—there is no play. Think good conversations, new friendships, shared experiences, lots of laughs, and maybe even finding that couple or connection you’ve been hoping to meet.

😉 👥 Who Can Attend? For our first event, attendance will be limited to: 🍍 Couples 💜 Single Females 🖤 Limited pre-vetted Single Men will be strictly limited and attendees must be pre-vetted and approved prior to attending. To keep things intimate and give everyone a genuine chance to mingle, we’re capping our first event at just 35 guests. 🚫

🍺 This Is a Dry Event To help maintain a safe, comfortable and respectful environment for everyone, no alcohol is to be consumed before or during the event. Anyone arriving under the influence will not be permitted to attend. We want everyone present, comfortable and able to communicate clearly—especially when discussing topics such as consent, boundaries and lifestyle etiquette.

☕ Food and non-alcoholic drinks will be available to purchase throughout the evening from our wonderful host café.

📅 Event Details Date: Saturday, 1st August Time: 5:30 PM – 8:30 PM Location: Dandenong Ranges Exact venue provided after vetting

If you’ve been sitting on the fence, wondering what it’s all about, this is your sign to come and say hello. Come as you are, bring your curiosity, an open mind and maybe a cheeky smile—we’ll take care of the rest. 😉 Life’s too short not to meet amazing people. We can’t wait to welcome you, please PM me

to receive a link to our registration form PM me.

https://preview.redd.it/3vp181w5bybh1.png?width=1024&format=png&auto=webp&s=df2e9932d76b39f72ba5a06e8ee5227b5e924095

🌿 Dandenong Ranges Swingers Social & BDSM Munch 🌿 Curious? Nervous? Excited? We’ve got you. 😉 After an incredible amount of interest from the community, we’re excited to officially announce the very first Dandenong Ranges Swingers Social & BDSM Munch!

Whether you’re swinger-curious, kink-curious, or simply looking to meet genuine, like-minded people, this is the perfect chance to step into the community in a relaxed, friendly and no-pressure environment. One thing we’d like everyone to know is that every event will be a little different. Some socials will focus on swinging, some will be kink/BDSM focused, and others will blend both worlds. That way, everyone has events they can feel comfortable attending, regardless of where they sit on the spectrum.

🍍 Our First Event: Introduction to Swinging & BDSM/Kink Everyone starts somewhere... and this is yours. This evening is designed specifically for those who are new to the lifestyle or thinking about taking that first step. Come along, meet some friendly faces, ask the questions you’ve always wanted to ask, and discover what the community is really like—without the myths, awkwardness or pressure. We’ll be chatting about: 💜 Lifestyle expectations vs reality 💜 Consent, communication and boundaries 💜 The do’s (and definitely the don’ts!) 💜 How to respectfully approach other people 💜 Making genuine connections 💜 Plenty of opportunities to ask questions and join the conversation This is strictly a social/munch—there is no play. Think good conversations, new friendships, shared experiences, lots of laughs, and maybe even finding that couple or connection you’ve been hoping to meet.

😉 👥 Who Can Attend? For our first event, attendance will be limited to: 🍍 Couples 💜 Single Females 🖤 Limited pre-vetted Single Men will be strictly limited and attendees must be pre-vetted and approved prior to attending. To keep things intimate and give everyone a genuine chance to mingle, we’re capping our first event at just 35 guests. 🚫

🍺 This Is a Dry Event To help maintain a safe, comfortable and respectful environment for everyone, no alcohol is to be consumed before or during the event. Anyone arriving under the influence will not be permitted to attend. We want everyone present, comfortable and able to communicate clearly—especially when discussing topics such as consent, boundaries and lifestyle etiquette.

☕ Food and non-alcoholic drinks will be available to purchase throughout the evening from our wonderful host café.

📅 Event Details Date: Saturday, 1st August Time: 5:30 PM – 8:30 PM Location: Dandenong Ranges Exact venue provided after vetting

If you’ve been sitting on the fence, wondering what it’s all about, this is your sign to come and say hello. Come as you are, bring your curiosity, an open mind and maybe a cheeky smile—we’ll take care of the rest. 😉 Life’s too short not to meet amazing people. We can’t wait to welcome you, please PM me

to receive a link to our registration form PM me.

https://preview.redd.it/3vp181w5bybh1.png?width=1024&format=png&auto=webp&s=df2e9932d76b39f72ba5a06e8ee5227b5e924095

🌿 Dandenong Ranges Swingers Social & BDSM Munch 🌿 Curious? Nervous? Excited? We’ve got you. 😉 After an incredible amount of interest from the community, we’re excited to officially announce the very first Dandenong Ranges Swingers Social & BDSM Munch!

Whether you’re swinger-curious, kink-curious, or simply looking to meet genuine, like-minded people, this is the perfect chance to step into the community in a relaxed, friendly and no-pressure environment. One thing we’d like everyone to know is that every event will be a little different. Some socials will focus on swinging, some will be kink/BDSM focused, and others will blend both worlds. That way, everyone has events they can feel comfortable attending, regardless of where they sit on the spectrum.

🍍 Our First Event: Introduction to Swinging & BDSM/Kink Everyone starts somewhere... and this is yours. This evening is designed specifically for those who are new to the lifestyle or thinking about taking that first step. Come along, meet some friendly faces, ask the questions you’ve always wanted to ask, and discover what the community is really like—without the myths, awkwardness or pressure. We’ll be chatting about: 💜 Lifestyle expectations vs reality 💜 Consent, communication and boundaries 💜 The do’s (and definitely the don’ts!) 💜 How to respectfully approach other people 💜 Making genuine connections 💜 Plenty of opportunities to ask questions and join the conversation This is strictly a social/munch—there is no play. Think good conversations, new friendships, shared experiences, lots of laughs, and maybe even finding that couple or connection you’ve been hoping to meet.

😉 👥 Who Can Attend? For our first event, attendance will be limited to: 🍍 Couples 💜 Single Females 🖤 Limited pre-vetted Single Men will be strictly limited and attendees must be pre-vetted and approved prior to attending. To keep things intimate and give everyone a genuine chance to mingle, we’re capping our first event at just 35 guests. 🚫

🍺 This Is a Dry Event To help maintain a safe, comfortable and respectful environment for everyone, no alcohol is to be consumed before or during the event. Anyone arriving under the influence will not be permitted to attend. We want everyone present, comfortable and able to communicate clearly—especially when discussing topics such as consent, boundaries and lifestyle etiquette.

☕ Food and non-alcoholic drinks will be available to purchase throughout the evening from our wonderful host café.

📅 Event Details Date: Saturday, 1st August Time: 5:30 PM – 8:30 PM Location: Dandenong Ranges Exact venue provided after vetting

If you’ve been sitting on the fence, wondering what it’s all about, this is your sign to come and say hello. Come as you are, bring your curiosity, an open mind and maybe a cheeky smile—we’ll take care of the rest. 😉 Life’s too short not to meet amazing people. We can’t wait to welcome you, please PM me

to receive a link to our registration form PM me.

https://preview.redd.it/3vp181w5bybh1.png?width=1024&format=png&auto=webp&s=df2e9932d76b39f72ba5a06e8ee5227b5e924095

🌿 Dandenong Ranges Swingers Social & BDSM Munch 🌿 Curious? Nervous? Excited? We’ve got you. 😉 After an incredible amount of interest from the community, we’re excited to officially announce the very first Dandenong Ranges Swingers Social & BDSM Munch!

Whether you’re swinger-curious, kink-curious, or simply looking to meet genuine, like-minded people, this is the perfect chance to step into the community in a relaxed, friendly and no-pressure environment. One thing we’d like everyone to know is that every event will be a little different. Some socials will focus on swinging, some will be kink/BDSM focused, and others will blend both worlds. That way, everyone has events they can feel comfortable attending, regardless of where they sit on the spectrum.

🍍 Our First Event: Introduction to Swinging & BDSM/Kink Everyone starts somewhere... and this is yours. This evening is designed specifically for those who are new to the lifestyle or thinking about taking that first step. Come along, meet some friendly faces, ask the questions you’ve always wanted to ask, and discover what the community is really like—without the myths, awkwardness or pressure. We’ll be chatting about: 💜 Lifestyle expectations vs reality 💜 Consent, communication and boundaries 💜 The do’s (and definitely the don’ts!) 💜 How to respectfully approach other people 💜 Making genuine connections 💜 Plenty of opportunities to ask questions and join the conversation This is strictly a social/munch—there is no play. Think good conversations, new friendships, shared experiences, lots of laughs, and maybe even finding that couple or connection you’ve been hoping to meet.

😉 👥 Who Can Attend? For our first event, attendance will be limited to: 🍍 Couples 💜 Single Females 🖤 Limited pre-vetted Single Men will be strictly limited and attendees must be pre-vetted and approved prior to attending. To keep things intimate and give everyone a genuine chance to mingle, we’re capping our first event at just 35 guests. 🚫

🍺 This Is a Dry Event To help maintain a safe, comfortable and respectful environment for everyone, no alcohol is to be consumed before or during the event. Anyone arriving under the influence will not be permitted to attend. We want everyone present, comfortable and able to communicate clearly—especially when discussing topics such as consent, boundaries and lifestyle etiquette.

☕ Food and non-alcoholic drinks will be available to purchase throughout the evening from our wonderful host café.

📅 Event Details Date: Saturday, 1st August Time: 5:30 PM – 8:30 PM Location: Dandenong Ranges Exact venue provided after vetting

If you’ve been sitting on the fence, wondering what it’s all about, this is your sign to come and say hello. Come as you are, bring your curiosity, an open mind and maybe a cheeky smile—we’ll take care of the rest. 😉 Life’s too short not to meet amazing people. We can’t wait to welcome you, please PM me

to receive a link to our registration form PM me.

https://preview.redd.it/3vp181w5bybh1.png?width=1024&format=png&auto=webp&s=df2e9932d76b39f72ba5a06e8ee5227b5e924095

Expressions of Interest – Dandenong Ranges Swingers & Kink Social 🌿

We're exploring the idea of hosting a monthly after-hours Swingers & Kink/BDSM Munch & Social in a beautiful, private café nestled in the Dandenong Ranges, nights will alternate between kink/bdsm And Swingers so we can incorporate everyone at different times for those who arnt interested in the cross over.

Think cosy vibes, great conversations, good coffee, tasty snacks, and the chance to meet like-minded people in a welcoming, judgement-free environment.

✨ What to expect:

• A relaxed, no-play social space to connect, network, and make new friends.

• Some evenings dedicated purely to socialising, while others will feature workshops, demonstrations, discussions, or Q&A sessions covering a range of topics—from beginner-friendly introductions through to more advanced skills and techniques.

• Opportunities to learn, ask questions, share experiences, and explore interests in a safe, respectful setting.

Attendance will be strictly capped at 30–40 guests, with pre-booking essential to help keep the atmosphere comfortable and intimate.

☕ Drinks and snacks will be available on a pay-as-you-go basis.

Our priority is creating a space where everyone feels comfortable. Dedicated consent and safety volunteers will be on hand throughout the evening to help newcomers, answer questions, ease first-time nerves, and support respectful social etiquette.

Whether you're completely new, experienced, curious, or simply looking to expand your social circle within the lifestyle, we'd love to hear from you.

💜 We'd also love your input!

What would make this event worth attending for you? Are there any workshop topics, demonstrations, or discussion ideas you'd like to see?

Drop your thoughts below or feel free to send me a DM. We'd love to help create something special for our local community.

Expressions of Interest – Dandenong Ranges Swingers & Kink Social 🌿

Note: This wont be shed specific or related to shed16

We're exploring the idea of hosting a monthly after-hours Swingers & Kink/BDSM Munch & Social in a beautiful, private café nestled in the Dandenong Ranges, nights will alternate between kink/bdsm And Swingers so we can incorporate everyone at different times for those who arnt interested in the cross over.

Think cosy vibes, great conversations, good coffee, tasty snacks, and the chance to meet like-minded people in a welcoming, judgement-free environment.

✨ What to expect:

• A relaxed, no-play social space to connect, network, and make new friends.

• Some evenings dedicated purely to socialising, while others will feature workshops, demonstrations, discussions, or Q&A sessions covering a range of topics—from beginner-friendly introductions through to more advanced skills and techniques.

• Opportunities to learn, ask questions, share experiences, and explore interests in a safe, respectful setting.

Attendance will be strictly capped at 30–40 guests, with pre-booking essential to help keep the atmosphere comfortable and intimate.

☕ Drinks and snacks will be available on a pay-as-you-go basis.

Our priority is creating a space where everyone feels comfortable. Dedicated consent and safety volunteers will be on hand throughout the evening to help newcomers, answer questions, ease first-time nerves, and support respectful social etiquette.

Whether you're completely new, experienced, curious, or simply looking to expand your social circle within the lifestyle, we'd love to hear from you.

💜 We'd also love your input!

What would make this event worth attending for you? Are there any workshop topics, demonstrations, or discussion ideas you'd like to see?

Drop your thoughts below or feel free to send me a DM. We'd love to help create something special for our local community.

How did everyone find last night?

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It seemed a great crowd but was very quiet

Was great to see alot of regular faces as well as quite alot of new faces!

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We had an absolute blast of a night and some great social conversations!

Who’s Causing Trouble Saturday at Shed16?

putting out feelers for a night of devious fun.

If you’ve seen us around before… you probably already know the vibe

About Us:

Happily married couple, early 30s

She’s bisexual, sexy curves, tatts, and an alternative style

He’s average build, long dreads, beard, fairly tattooed

We’re big on chemistry, connection, and mutual respect. We love a good vibe, solid communication, and respect of boundaries.

You’ll usually find us in the dungeon (especially checking out that newly built one), often enjoying some impact play and maybe even putting on a bit of a show

Important bits:

No single males

Couples & females only

Big on boundaries, communication, and staying drama-free

If you spot us on the night, don’t be shy — come say hey. Or feel free to slide into the DMs beforehand or even to arrange a meet another time.

Who’s Causing Trouble Saturday at Shed16?

putting out feelers for a night of devious fun.

If you’ve seen us around before… you probably already know the vibe

About Us:

Happily married couple, early 30s

She’s bisexual, sexy curves, tatts, and an alternative style

He’s average build, long dreads, beard, fairly tattooed

We’re big on chemistry, connection, and mutual respect. We love a good vibe, solid communication, and respect of boundaries.

You’ll usually find us in the dungeon (especially checking out that newly built one), often enjoying some impact play and maybe even putting on a bit of a show

Important bits:

No single males

Couples & females only

Big on boundaries, communication, and staying drama-free

If you spot us on the night, don’t be shy — come say hey. Or feel free to slide into the DMs beforehand or even to arrange a meet another time.

Who are we seeing down at Taboo Tuesday this week?

The vibe and energy has been so great on tuesdays with heaps of single F and MF couples attending as well as new faces, we where told last week was quite but was great atmosphere and attendees looking forward to seeing everyone tomorrow!

If your heading in feel free to reach out to us

Just letting everyone know i have updated the user flairs to add in different couple types and single M or single F to help people find profiles that match along side post flairs.

Heaven or Hell… your choice 😈

Melbourne… who’s ready to misbehave a little?

On May 9, we’re turning up the tension and bringing out your playful side for a night where boundaries blur and chemistry takes over.

Angels & Demons is all about stepping into that side of you that doesn’t always come out to play…

sweet, sinful… or a little bit of both.

✨ Dress to tempt (theme dress not necessary but encouraged)

✨ Play your part

✨ Connect, flirt, and see where the night leads

⏰ From 8PM

💸 Couples: $70

💋 Single Ladies: $30

🔥 Single Males: $150 - must prebook 20 limited spots.

Good vibes, respectful play, and plenty of opportunity to meet like-minded people 😉

Some will behave… most won’t 😏

So tell us… are you bringing the halo, or the horns?

Been a bit quiet in this sub lately swingers always hibernate in the colder months, who is heading down this week?

What nights are you attending are you a couple M or F drop a comment see if you can spark some connections before heading in

We'll be there saturday, from those we know its looking to be a really good night MF 35/32 for us!