26F looking for friends around my age in the lifestyle!

Hi hi! 👋

I'm wanting to get back into the swing of things (so to speak) after a semi-extended break from the lifestyle. I'm also navigating this world as a single woman now rather than as part of a couple, which is a little confronting and feels like learning how to do things all over again

So, I'm hoping to find some people around my age who I can actually befriend! Ideally people where there's genuinely no expectation of play. I'd love a whatever-happens-happens kind of vibe and to just make some nice connections with people who get it.

It would be lovely to have some friendly faces to look for when I'm at events/venues, have people I can potentially attend things with, or even just have someone to message and debrief with afterwards. I'm very much looking for friends first, with the lifestyle being the thing we happen to have in common.

I'm taking things pretty slowly and finding my feet again, but I would love love love to make some friends along the way. I'm also more than happy to chat for a while and get to know each other before meeting up!

Bit about me:

I'm 26F, previously in the lifestyle with a partner and now single. I started ENM/swinging in 2022 and have a decent amount of experience with events/venues etc, so I'm definitely not new to the space just new to navigating it on my own!

I'm an online SWer but also work in healthcare. Outside of all that, I love reading, gaming, napping, eating good food, chatting absolute shit and generally being a bit of a homebody/social butterfly depending on the day

I'm ideally looking for people around 24–35ish, but I'm not going to start checking IDs, so if you're around my age and think we'd get along, say hi!

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