Hi just...want some advice
Hi
Middle 20s m here
I just wanted to post here because I 've been always atracted to this image of persons girls specifically being Gagged and bound. I always thougth there was something wrong with me. I live in a conservative society so this is not good. At the time I did not know anything that those fantasies were related to BDSM.
Anyways I always have the doubts and it was very recently actually that I discovered all of this of BDSM and reading and reaserching also reading posts in the community I discovered that it was not ...as I thougth it would be ...I thougth the worst about myself for having this thougths always felt like a .... something weird.
I do not want to act it out I just want to understand it and understand myself..I do not want hook ups or dating or anything like that or anything weird ...I just thougth that it could be good to discuss with people about this ...and kind of normalized it... for me.
Have you felt this?
Is it normal to be afraid at first of all of this?
Where do You recomend me to start? What can I read or where can I learn about this in a safe way?
Anyways thanks for reading.