u/Aggravating_Ant9483

Happy Monday all! I've gotten a lot of replies to my original post but haven't yet found a match but I'm aware it may take some time. I wanted to fine tune my post so it is clear in what I'm looking for!

About me:

I’m a man in my early 30s, married for 3 years, no kids, career on autopilot (Corporate Career), and very stable. I am 6ft, fit, attractive, and hung (8.5" humbly for those who are curious). I love eating (I love cooking even more), working out, dancing, reading, being out in nature, hiking, traveling, going to festivals/concerts, walking my dog, volunteering when I can, and having new experiences.

I am a very intentional man. I'm very sexual and even more sensual. I know what I want and I go after it both in and outside the bedroom. Hoping I can find someone who can reel me back and offer low pressure peace/excitement.

I am looking for:

• You don't have to be attached yourself but you have to be VERY understanding that I am
• Attractive (age and race are nonfactors for me)
• Fit (being a gym rat is not needed at all but taking care of yourself is important. I should add just because you are thicker does not mean you are not fit so you are welcomed too)
• Able to hold conversation
• Drama free
• Ready to be explore. I don't want to waste anyone's time so please don't waste my time if you are not ready to jump in completely.
• Open to meeting in person (coffee at some point)
• Has week day availability (I work remotely so during the week and during the day is best but I have flexibility for other times and weekends if planned accordingly.
• Comfortable sharing pictures
• Local to Chicago (I live near Lakeview)

I’m not looking to blow up anyone’s life. I’m certainly not looking for drama, at all. Nor am I here to judge you or be judged. I know this is not easy for anyone so I'm very respectful and understanding and would like the same in return. I’m looking for long term connection first and if things feels right we can discuss physical but if you're just looking for physical that can be arranged too.

If you’re in a similar place craving conversation, chemistry, and/or a spark, message me and tell about something you did exciting/fun recently. I am hoping we can give each other a reason to smile throughout the day!