u/Agitated-Coffee-6365

my gf(19) and I(20) are going to meet a potential third this week. Since we aren’t old enough to drink at bars, where would you go to meet for the first time.

my gf (19) met our third (23) for a coffee a couple months ago. we’ve discussed our boundaries and what we want to do but every time we start talking about meeting all together she moves on from it and hasn’t talked about it in a couple weeks now. should i keep asking her or do you think she needs some more time?

My gf and I are long distance rn and we met someone to be a potential third who lives closer to her. We’ve been talking with him for a couple months and she met him today without me and said she actually really liked it. I don’t mind them hanging out without me due to the distance but how can i still be involved and what are some rules you would set?