u/AgreeableTeaching498

I am tired of being the only one in our relationship who puts in any effort when it comes to sex, and a large majority of my efforts go nowhere. I am 47 HLM, she LLF. She really has zero libido. We have been married 24 years and I feel more and more frustrated by the day. We have talked about and only ever helps very short term. Counseling doesn’t seem like an option either. Nobody to talk to about this and it feels like no way out. I hate being high libido, and feeling invisible. Sorry for the rant.