u/Albus_John

Scene Advice

Hi,

me (m26) and my partner (f25) are in a d/s dynamic.

We each have our own respective kinks and interests we want to explore but are still fairly new to exploring this side of our sex life.

I sometimes get caught up in the moment of wanting to do everything at once and was hoping for some guidance, advice and ideas around scenes/sessions and what we can do, including things that I can say to her.

Ive outlined some of our respective kinks below to help. We also have a large collection of toys: dildos, butt plugs, vibrators, bed restraints, cuffs, collars, gags, blindfolds, paddles, and some more

Me: bondage, cum fetish (breeding, facials, etc), oral, anal training, body writing, CNC, impact play, edging, choosing her clothing, DP

Partner: being used, CNC, impact play, degradation (being called my whore or slut, etc), pleasing me, oral (on me)

We have safewords and limits set up and both of us are into the things listed above this is more just favourites.

Any suggestions or ideas would be appreciated

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u/Albus_John — 9 days ago