My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months and have a pretty active sex life. We’re both open to trying new things and communicating about what we like.
I really enjoy giving him oral and will offer when I’m in the mood. He’s told me multiple times that he wants to reciprocate and has always wanted to go down on a woman. After months of him bringing it up, I agreed to try it.
The thing is… I didn’t enjoy it. I gave it a fair shot and tried a few times, but every time I just felt uncomfortable the whole time. I really wanted to like it, especially since it’s something he’s excited about, but I just don’t.
Now I’m stuck feeling guilty. I know it’s something he wants to do, but I don’t think I want to keep trying it. Would it be selfish to set that boundary?