I have a question. My girlfriend and I have been wanting to try out some new positions lately. Up until now, doggy style has been my favorite—it’s the one that makes me climax the fastest. Do you have any suggestions for positions I should try? We recently tested "prone bone," and we both really liked it. Please share your favorite positions, too; we want to try something new.
>!Okay so I 21F have a boyfriend 22M. We’ve been together over a year and we have great communication when it comes to disagreements and there’s no concerns about how much we love each other. BUT!<
>!When it comes it sex I feel like i want it more than him all the time. I think my drive is higher than his and I’m too shy to ask him for more. I can’t effectively communicate what I’d like to do in the bedroom either without getting too shy and scared to talk. He’s sweet and I’m sure he’d like to listen it’s just hard to explain to him.!<
>!His thing is a great size but when it comes to foreplay it’s lacking and I can tell his unsure of what he’s doing as we’re still young. I’d like to explain and guide him but again I’m literally so shy when it comes to expressing these things. Mentally in my head it feels like I’m asking for too much and it takes me out of the moment and ruins the fun to me.!<
>!Advice is welcome and needed !!<
I'm wondering is there anything to do so you can go atleast 2 rounds in one night, i love having sex with my boyfriend but it takes him like atleast 24 hours for his penis to be alive again. He stopped smoking a year ago, doesn't use nicotine pouches as much anymore but still daily, his drinking is a little less than before, sometimes not even every week. After he finishes he sometimes can keep going but only for like a minute or two. I could go all night and day. He just feels so good
How's your sex life?
We are married couple in our young 30s and we're trying to get pregnant.
During (also few days before and after) the ovulation days we are having sex every second day (1 day sex, 1 day rest). Other days I find that my wife can go 2-3 even 4 days no even talking about sex, touching, nothing.
I feel like we just do sex to get pregnant and every time I tell her about this she says I need to understand she is tired because doing sex every second day is making her tired and also she wants to feel like she wants me (in other words I believe 'horny').
I understand that after few days you feel more horny and the sex is something else but me as a man I feel like I want sex every day. Or at least touch me, hand job, blowjob.
We just go to sleep without sex or even small hand job and I feel like she just doesn't want me.
So how is your sex life? Does your wife give you a 'hand' even on days she does not want to have sex?
Girlfriend and I have started having sex on our 2nd floor patio at night and it’s amazing so far. We don’t need to worry about sound tooooo much since we live out in the mountains but do have neighbors that would hear us if we got a little crazy.
We have enough room for a small mattress and have been using that.
There’s something really sex about having sex under the stars but I feel like we are kinda limited to being more vanilla as far as positions and accessories go.
Anyone experimented with sex outside like this and if so what kinds of things did you do to make it more exciting and memorable?
Ok so for the last week I have been trying to explore the world of squirting. I read and watched a few videos on how to do it to yourself. Twice what I consider to be squirting has happened, but then I second guess myself. Both times I’m using a dildo and really focusing on the top area a few inches in where I read the “spot” was that would
Trigger a squirting orgasm.
The first time I would say my bladder was not empty but I didn’t even consider peeing beforehand. When I ended up “squirting” my bedsheets weren’t yellow and the liquid I expelled smelled sort of like a very watered down pee-ish smell.
So I decided to try again on a different day and record myself this time. Did the same action with my dildo, felt the need like I had to pee, and just let myself relax and I started to watch liquid trickle down once I really got to that spot.
I then pulled my dildo out and it gushed, and I was like ok this is probably pee? But then it gushed a few more times and all the while my vagina was spasming tight when I would release fluid.
Again, smell was very faint like very very watered down pee with something else. I know essentially squirt is pee but I’m sore the two actions though are different. I’m just trying to figure out if I successfully achieved my goal or am I just pissing myself 🤣
My boyfriend has always had a bit of an obsession with my boobs, recently everytime we have sex and specifically when in cowgirl and grabs them so hard I bruise, I tell him not that hard everytime but its like he forgets everytime. Im just tired of walking around with blue and yellow boobs. What can I do?
I want to state that he always apologizes, never means any harm to me or has ever wanted to hurt me
As the title says, I’ve been known to be experimentalist and my wife knows it as well… and lately she asked what a fantasy of mine was. I told her that I want to see her be pleasured by another person, specifically a woman and lately the thought of her being railed by another man has also turned me on and that wasn’t always the case.
For me, I see this as a one night fling but to her she sees it as opening up the relationship. But I told her that to me, it’s a night of fun and won’t continue, unless she likes it and wants to do it again, but I don’t see it as opening up the relationship.
What do y’all think? 🤔
Me and my Girlfriend have been together for about a year now. We have a great relationship. No arguments, good sex. But I've noticed it always takes her a while to finish whenever I give her oral. It takes from 30 minutes to almost an hour for her to finish, and I always feel bad when I make her wait so long. She tells me not to worry and that it's okay it takes longer, but I know I can make her finish in less than 10 minutes from previous pleasuring with my fingers.
Tonight, I tried to have her walk and talk me through it, ask her what feels the best and how she likes it, what gets her there. Still took an hour for her to finish. We've had sex pretty often recently, which has caused by tongue to sting a little from giving her oral. But I preserved, as I want to fulfill all of her desires.
It does handicap me, which is definitely part of the problem. But even at full strength, it can be hard to get her there.
She tells me I accidentally lose the spot, and its like the timer resets all over again. She likes lots of pressure, which can be hard when my tongue is tender, but other times, its my jaw that starts to give out. Plus, increasing speed while maintaining pressure isn't easy, and her impulsive hip thrusts and head pushing also does not help.
From these points, is there anything physically I can do to maybe help build my tongue muscles to help her orgasm quicker? Or maybe a secret technique?
Are there any supplements or enhancements other than toys that can help her orgasm faster?
Thanks for any help!
F(24) here, how can I know my fiance (M31) is in the mood for sex
Hello F24 here, I need some advice from you guys. Maybe you can give me some tips and tricks how to get things working.
So I talked to my fiance about sexual stuff and we both came to the conclusion that we could initiate more, but mostly I don't know when he's in the mood for sex or anything sexual.
We live together since a bit over a month and at the moment sex decreased since he was stressed and tired, we communicated that as well since I wanted to know if something else was wrong. I'm thinking maybe I can spice things up a bit, I brought some spicy underwear to wear, but I didn't show it off yet, since I told him I'll show him in the right moment (to surprise him).
The problem I have is that mostly after work we do chores and after that we eat and hang out on the couch and watch something on Netflix together, when I start kissing him more he goes along, but keeps watching the series afterwards. Maybe I have to be more direct? How can I check if he is in the mood as well? I told him that I don't really know when he's in the mood and he said that's bad because I'm his fiance and I should just find a moment, but uh yea 😅.
I need help. My fiance and I met three years ago. Our first year of dating was AMAZING. We visited each other once a month/sometimes two. We had sex almost every night sometimes multiple times a night. It was great sex. He was the first to get me to O from oral. I’ve never been able to O without “helping” during sex so this was a first for me. Fast forward to now and we haven’t had sex in two months. He thinks he doesn’t have the “equipment” to please me and doesn’t initiate sex anymore. His confidence has gone BEYOND low because he’s gained some weight and thinks I’m not pleased by him. I love him very much and still want him but every time sex comes up in a topic it goes so south it’s annoying. He’s tried looking in to surgery’s, pills, tools. Whatever you can think of and can’t find a remedy. Mind you I have never told him
He’s not satisfactory or not “big enough”. I am honest with him and tell him oral is now my favorite but I love everything else with him too. We use to be so connected and now it’s like we’re just roommates. I don’t know what to say or do. Every time I try he rolls his eyes and has some kind of response that I just can’t even come up with another response to. It’s just a circle of him putting himself down and saying I don’t want him.
Lol after 4 kids they're hound dog ears lol
As the title suggests. My wife enjoys anal play but finds it gross that I want it. 90% of the time it takes anal play for her to get off but it's weird if I like it?
We've talked and I told her that I would do anything (and I mean anything) if something brought her more pleasure, and she never once has asked me what I like. Her response was: "Yeah your probably right, I haven't".
My wife doesn't want to try any of my kinks and we have had long honest talk, what would you do?
I caught my husband faking finishing one time, which led to him telling me he’s done it off and on throughout the years when he was struggling to cum.
This hurt a lot as he usually is the one to initiate sex, so it was shocking that there’s been more than one time when he couldn’t finish, and faked it instead.
We’re in our 20’s so it’s not an age/ED issue, could this be something that results from being addicted to porn? Is it me, is this something I should be anxious about? Has this happened to any other couples?
I’ve only seen males say they faked it when it was absolutely awful for them..
If you’re a man and ever faked finishing, was there a specific reason or does that just happen sometimes?
My wife fucked a stranger I set her up with a few weeks back. It made me curious if you prefer an ongoing sexual relationship or if you prefer sex with strangers?
I’ve been talking with my wife about couple swapping and threesomes lately. We both are interested in having new experiences together.
She is worried about jealousy seeing me with another woman. So I suggested a threesome with another guy. So a MFM I guess.
I think I’d be fine with seeing her blow or fuck the other guy and such, since I’ll be involved too and as long as she’s enjoying it. I’m not 100% sure but only one way to know I guess.
Also I’m not bi, but I would be fine playing with the other guy too, if he’s into it, since I’ll do anything she wants me too, if she thinks it’s hot.
Anybody have some advice on this experience? It’s heard to really know without doing it yet.
Do you prefer big or small labia? Innies or Outies. Big clits or small clits?
I don’t want to be considered a pillow princess/lazy/inactive partner, but most times he will just tell me not to do anything while he’s about to finish. Are there any moves you would consider welcomed in this scenario, or should I indeed just lay there?
I hooked up with a woman for the first time ever, it was also my first sexual experience+first kiss. She was amazing, was kind enough to help me and geniunely a great person. This happened 2 days ago but i cant stop thinking about her even though it was just casual sex. She was 3 years older than me and before that night i shared some vulnerable stuff with her so i feel like my brain views that sex as affectionate. How long do these feelings last? (Im a m20)