Do I smell bad? Or does this man just hate me?
Hi! I need advice. I’m seeing a new guy, he’s got some red flags but I’m not taking him very seriously and we have a good time. 🤷♀️
Before we were intimate he told me he is attracted to a women who smells good& just put on lotion. Nbd that’s pretty regular.
There’s a massive heatwave so I’ve been hyper vigilant about my hygiene. One day I told him “oh sorry I’m probably sweaty”
he said
“You’re good girl. Idc about that. If that happens just get in the shower handle your business before we’re having sex”
Okay yeah 🤷♀️
Welp. We had sex and he told me he was gonna buy me lube because “we need enhancers” …okayyy….
I told him I had just gotten out of a long relationship and I was kinda “rusty”. After we had sex he told me
“I can tell you were kinda out of practice” that’s not nice.
Directly after sex he asked me “I’m not gonna wake up burning am I?” Like Are you serious?????
I asked him did I stink, he said no, I asked him what was wrong w my pyssy, he said nothing and he was just asking.
We had sex again and he noticed the perfume in my room & he picked out a kind he liked & asked me to put some on. That seems relatively normal.
I’ve never had complaints before. My coochie just smell like.. coochie. I take probiotics, chlorophyll, I drink lots of water.. the sex is good but is it worth it if he’s going to make me feel insecure?? Do any men/women have similar experiences?? I’m just feeling weird, insecure & want some input. Sorry for rambling.
Update: thank you for confirming my suspicions. He asked me to see him for the 3rd day in a row. I said yes but I’m sore & may not want to have sex tn. He rescheduled! 😂😂 thank you all for helping me dodge this major bullet