Gf only likes receiving, and I’m feeling sexually unfulfilled. What should I do?
Me (20ftm) and my gf (20f) have been having some sex issues, I like to receive and give equally but she only likes receiving. This has been leaving me sexually frustrated and sometimes feeling unwanted by her.
She says the reason she doesn’t like to give is because she is selfish and just doesn’t get pleasure from it and therefore doesn’t like doing it. She sometimes does it but it feels forced and like she’s just trying to get through the motions, so I make her stop. I don’t want her to do anything she doesn’t want to do. She says she feels bad about this whole situation.
This is her first relationship and I’m the first person she’s had sex with. We have a great relationship other than this and have been together for about 7 months. I don’t think it’s anything about me being trans and I know she does love me, I’m just looking for advice, is this something I’ll just have to live with? Should we talk to a therapist?