31F - First time he’s coming over while I’m on my period… do I say something beforehand?
This feels so silly to be embarrassed about at 31, but here I am.
I’ve been seeing/hooking up with a guy for a little while, and this is the first time he’s coming over while I’m on my period. I’m not sure if I should mention it before he comes over, wait until he gets here, or just not say anything unless it comes up.
Part of me wants to text him beforehand so there are no expectations. Another part of me thinks I should just say something casually if things start heading in that direction, like, “Just a heads-up, I’m on my period, so tonight might just be about hanging out.”
Am I overthinking this? Guys (and ladies), what would you prefer? Would a quick heads-up be appreciated, or is this really not as big of a deal as I’m making it in my head?