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he’s a bit older than me and so he has more experience and strong opinions on certain things I think, but he really said “buy all the vibrators you want but any penetrative toy hell no.” he says it’s just like cheating and it‘s disrespectful to him because it’s as if I would want a bigger for more pleasure, and he really said “I’m serious I don’t play about this” I want to respect how he feels and do the right thing, and I don’t even necessarily want a dildo, I just wanted to know how he felt about it, he spoke on it before I even asked. im not sure if it’s insecurity or something ? he also said “especially if it’s a bigger dick than mine, I’m serious you can’t have that.”