The story of a dead bedroom man who has been here (on reddit and in this sub) for over year. Met a mix of people (those that rejected and those that accepted). The probability of success is smaller than a shrimps dick. On the hindsight, there is hope. But thats in your mindset.
I realized (so fucking late in my life) that physical attraction is #1 and it takes 6-7 months to reset it. We/me like many of us never focused on mental and physical health. It was always career, money, growth and this also come at the cost of time. The time which we should have catered to train our mind, body and muscles.
Last half i didn't like what i was seeing in the mirror. I told myself, to work like a beast, at least follow a schedule. And it was tough, but fck its worth it. I now get more attention than needed and feel sly shy too.
I said physical attraction is #1 right, let me correct it. People see that you have the will to work and be disciplined. Thats a huge turn on.
Thats my wrap up for Q1'26.