r/DesiAdultery

I have come to my cousin sister’s place, I am 23M and she is 32. She is a senior software engineer at an MNC. Today she wore a stretchable black deep scoop neck top along with a small gold chain to office. When she was about to leave for office today, I accidentally noticed a folded paper slip inside her bra and that made me really hard. I wasn’t expecting that from her as I know this is usually done by aunties and a few years back when my aunt(her mom) kept her mobile phone inside her top, she was completely against it. I was very curious to know what that slip was and wanted to mock her hypocrisy but was scared to ask or tell anything about it. Should I ask her about it when she is back? If yes, then how should I do that?

hey i dont even know why im typing this but my minds fucked up rn im 28 married few months back hubby had a month long office trip i was all alone bored as hell so i installed reddit to kill time then this girl messaged me after same comment we started normal but got flirty quick since shes a girl i told myself its not cheating and we started sxting so fucking hot i got so wet touching myself reading her messages i wasnt bi before but now maybe i am idk it confuses me so much then she asked can i add my bf too my heart was pounding i said yes and fuck the three of us sxting was insane i was dripping rubbing my pussy thinking about them both he came back stayed a month but now hes gone again on another trip its only been few days im alone again and im craving that intense dirty thrill so bad my body is aching for it the guilt is killing me i still love my husband but those chats made me feel alive and slutty in ways i cant forget i keep checking phone hoping for more messages like that if anyone been thru this tell me im losing it sorry this is all messy and typed fast thanks if u read it.............

Dear fellow lurkers, 34M, and I’m posting because I’m trying to make sense of my own thoughts and figure out if any of you operate the same way.

Despite being genuinely happy at home I strongly desire an AP. Society assumes stepping out means your marriage is broken, but for me it’s a completely separate craving. It’s about experiencing raw passion and a secret connection that just doesn't fit into a comfortable, domesticated routine. I don't want to replace my wife or blow up my life.

I know to an outsider this looks like I just want the best of both worlds. A stable “settled family” life
and the wild passion on the side.

Are there other Desi folks here who want an AP simply because they crave more? Rather than trying to fix a void?

How are you all holding up ? How was 2026 been so far ?

I took a break from adultery and focused on myself. Went to Mexico recently and did get some attention (first time in my life)… felt good.

Looking back this is the first time in a long time that I haven’t posted for APs.

Also the layoffs. Habba… that is not the “laid” what I asked for god.

On to you gang…

Got connected with this redditor couple (F28, M30) via the ad they published. I am 40M and the age gap is real. But I workout regularly and stay fit. Had verification on video call and everything was good.

After few days a message pops up.. "Want to see something?" and I replied with "heck yes" with a gut feeling that he is going to entice me with nudes of her girl. I am excited. He sends a view once pic of him riding her girl from behind!

I am hard and he mentions, we are in a hotel room, at it right now. I thought he is making me jealous but hopeful me says "wish I was there". He reverts with "Would you like to fuck her ?" and I am like "yess please". To which he laughs and says let me show you and immediately video calls me. I see the girl live for the first time, she is petite, in shape and he is fucking her from behind. Both of them are moaning. And I am hard, sitting here wishing I could be part of that. But alas..

After few minutes, he asks "Would u like to come to join us ?" and I couldn't believe my luck. Responded with "Absolutely yes. I want to be there right now" and he sends me the location with room number and say "Bring condom".

I was 20 minutes away and I rushed to that hotel asap. Along the way he instructs "Just start when you enter, she likes her boobs sucked". I Got condoms along the way, got a separate room and directly went to their room, the door to their room was open. And what do I see?

The room was reeking of sex, cigarettes and booze. The AC didn't work for some reason and it was peak summer afternoon. But horny me ignored that.

She was sitting on the bed, with his shirt on but nothing underneath. He was sitting on a chair with drink and phone in his hand. He welcomes me and asks me to start with it. And I gently started with fondling and and going down on her and all. She is clearly in love with him and looked like she is doing it for his pleasure and was shy at first and then started encouraging me to take her harder. I kissed her on mouth, licked her tits and pussy, and made love to her initially and then really fucked her hard afterwards.

While I was fucking her hard, she was moaning and her guy was enjoying the show, reality set in.

I wasn't actually enjoying this. Yes, its thrilling to fuck someone in front of their spouse. But 3some? Thats an absolute no-no for me now. Before me, they were fucking and his spit/saliva/sweat might have been all over her. And then I was kissing her all over. That feeling gave me yuck. Also she was more into him and not me, I was just a fucktoy there maybe?

I pounded the shit out of her and got done with it. Once I came, they didn't want to socialize so I left from that room, onto the room I booked when I came it, and took long ass shower of like 30 minutes, cleaning every part of me. And then I slept in the room for a while and left.

So, thats how it was. MMF looks attractive and thrilling but I guess I am more like a one-on-one person. Maybe I can cuckold someone but never participate with another man with the same woman.

What do you think? Questions?

Dear community,

The mod team has spent enough time playing everyone’s least favorite game: Is this a genuine post or just another R4R/explicit content drop wearing a fake mustache?

Spoiler: we’re frustrated 😖

This sub has rules for a reason, and the flood of posts that belong elsewhere is making it harder for us to create good content.

Effective immediately:

First-time offenders: enjoy a 100-day vacation from the sub (i.e. banned temporarily)

Repeat offenders: you’ll be getting the permanent VIP exit pass (i.e banned forever).

There are plenty of other subs designed for R4R and adult content. This one isn’t it.

Help us keep the community for meaningful conversations about being adulterous desis.

Thank you 🙏🏽

It was just sexting which was already a step too much for me. We've flirted in the past, really just him and I've hardly reciprocated and tend to put an end to it. However yesterday night we ended up chatting with each other until almost 4 AM.

We weren't able to talk much for the last few days because of our schedules. So we made plans for a date night after husband slept. Yes I am aware I am not morally a good person. We had wine together chatting and flirting. We spoke of really going on a date joked of all the cover up stories we will need, what we will wear and what he wanted me to wear. I already get giddy with such talk because I have not gone on a date since year 1 of marriage and never been asked to wear something specific since when I was dating my husband.

We talked a lot of all the things we wanted to do and places we wanted to go. It felt wonderful. Usually I cut off whenever the conversation goes to anything physical but when he told me he would kiss me it just felt good. And the more he described it I just did not want it to stop. He asked me how I felt and how my body felt and insisted until I described to him. It felt like the first time I was scanning my body to how I reacted to everything I said. We exchanged a few photos of how we were at that time. Nothing nude or compromising. I think we were beyond any control after he saw how I felt under my top and when he showed me himself in his boxers. That sight is so fully still in my mind seeing a man how he felt about me. I needed the release he provided, it was like experiencing something completely basic and mandatory and felt out of the world. I now realize how much I have suppressed myself.

My only regret is just me being unable to openly express myself. I wanted to please him and I honestly felt so incapable. I am not used to using explicit words and I don't know why I always stop myself before saying what I feel I want with him. I honestly wish I could do more for him. He checked how I am doing today morning and I still feel the excitement of last night. He said he wanted to see me and is going to invite us for the July 4th celebration he is hosting. I really look forward to seeing him and wearing what he wanted me to.

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