r/DesiAdultery

The other day while stuck in ATL traffic, I was randomly analyzing my life and realized that almost all of my past partners/affairs were either educators or worked in medical/healthcare fields.

Now that I am thinking about putting myself out there again, I am curious if that pattern means anything…or if my luck will completely change this time around (more likely, I’ll find nothing since i am looking 😅).

Do you all tend to have a certain “type,” even unintentionally?

Hey everyone,

I've had following this sub(from my old account too) that time I was single now I have a partner and things stared to fade so here I am writing an Ad to seek for AP. To all the experienced folks out there who got AP - do let me know you suggestion or feedback: -

I’m a 25-year-old Software Engineer working from home for a foreign company, based in Kolkata. Slim build (169cm), bearded, generally chill guy who likes cracking sarcastic jokes.

I’ve been in a long-term relationship with my girlfriend (23) for quite some time now. She comes over twice a week, we do the cuddling, massages and all that, but there’s zero actual sex or real physical intimacy. We’ve talked about it multiple times, I’ve tried to be patient and understanding, but nothing has changed. My libido is pretty high, so this whole situation has been frustrating.

I’m not here to leave my relationship or create any drama at home. I still care about her. But I’ve reached a point where I’m looking for something on the side – a discreet FWB kind of connection.

Preferably someone older (28+), straightforward, who knows what she wants. Someone who’s also in a similar low-sex situation at home. Looking for good chemistry – spicy chats, teasing, voice notes, and occasional meets when it works for both.

I’m very open to exploring fantasies and kinks, love giving pleasure, foreplay, and taking time. Hygiene and discretion are non-negotiable.

If you’re in the same boat and want something consistent but low-pressure, hit me up. Tell me a bit about your situation and what you’re looking for.

Pics after we vibe a little.

Note: This is a new account (only 6 days old) because my old one got banned randomly. I’m using a different device to stay safe. Happy to do a quick voice note for verification.

Looking forward to your feedback and learn from your experiences.

22 [M4F] HYDERABAD- student looking for that F to Sexting / to learn Sexting i am a virgin. v card holder

Never had any girlfriend/sex partner because i don't know how to talk to them and even if I talk i don't know how to take things to the next step and i don't lack the confidence i just don't know when to say what to get her.

If you would help me that would be great.

Hi all,

We mods have noticed an uptick in R4R and explicit content which is not allowed on this sub. I’ve begun permanently banning repeat offenders.

For those of you following the rules—thank you!! 🙏

Please keep flagging inappropriate posts.

Imagine you are having an empty day at work (or even a busy day). You are away from your spouse. Your phone in your hand. Suddenly the inner urge to explore pleasure isn’t letting you concentrate at work. You are constantly finding ways to finding some ways to indulge. Some ways to experience the adrenaline rush you felt last time when casual texting with a stranger you met online, turned into a witty back and forth, laced with a strong dose of flirting. You can feel the tension rising. It is being reciprocated really well too. You can’t keep your hands away from your phone. Every notification, every alert is challenging you. Making you raise your game up every time.

Around this point, your flirtatious exchange is met with more than expected desire. You feel the twitch. Just the right amount of twitch to get you hooked. Indulge in it more and more… soon you are imagining each other naked, hands all over each other. Texting has turned to sexting and your partner is struggling to touch their phone to respond, while at the same time being unable to keep their hands free. Hands exploring and seeing ways to feel desire, pleasure and lust. Uninhibited. You have successfully unveiled their inner urges. Uncovered their urges. She feels secure and comfortable undressing, unveiling more of themselves. You are soon exposing each other’s rawest secrets and fantasies. Pleasure lingers on.. only getting more intense. Lust is sending surges of hormones within your system which is giving you a high unlike anything you have experienced in a while.
You still indulge. Challenging them to resist your temptations. Only unsuccessfully.