Are my expectations wrong?
I have always been interested in the Master/Slave type dynamic. I found myself to be more submissive to my last boyfriend but it wasnt really his thing, just came naturally. I am wondering how to find guys that I am into for this. I am a bit intimidated by local meet-ups with kink as I am more private with this, but I figure I have to in order to meet people. I haven't really been to a in person meet up i just imagine its very intense people who likely arent my type as they are very public about it.
I love the idea of a very intense one on one connection with a dominant boyfriend or master that is largely in the bedroom and doesnt spill into real life too much except behind closed doors. Do you guys have any opinions, thoughts, suggestions or anything else to advise me on how I might meet someone.
Im also interested in if anyone else was nervous when they started and a bit shy and how they got comfortable going to these type of things. I guess im also afraid if I am not into someone they will be busy or offended.