Hi,
I’m 31, 179 cm, sporty build (75 kg), with a beard, short hair and glasses – just a normal, well-groomed guy from Vienna who’s got his life together. By day I run my own IT/Software project management business, in the evenings I’m the type who loves silly banter, sarcasm and black humor. I can talk for hours, laugh until it hurts, cuddle on the couch, or be caring and reliable whenever you need it.
I’ve already lived in a DDLG relationship and I know how beautiful and deep this dynamic can be – especially when it’s not 24/7 but simply a loving part of our everyday life. I’ve had play partners too, but it only ever felt truly “home” in a serious relationship. That’s exactly what I’m looking for: a partner I can enjoy normal couple stuff with – weekend trips, adventures, inside jokes, supporting each other through the good and bad days.
My Dynamic & Kinks
At the core it’s all DDLG/ABDL for me. I love dressing you in cute clothes, giving you baths and drying you off, spoiling you with a pacifier and bottle, reading bedtime stories or just cuddling for hours. Diapers are something I find incredibly sweet and intimate – they can be purely caring (a little diaper butt under cute pajamas beats any lingerie for me) or playfully teasing.
I also like mixing in typical BDSM (spanking etc.), gentle/cute humiliation (teasing you with a few simple words until you blush bright red with embarrassment… then immediately pulling you close and whispering “it’s okay, this stays our little secret”), and things like orgasm control or denial as fun punishment. Sexually I prefer it soft, slow and loving in the Little space, but we can also weave it into playful discipline.
I’m open to trying new things together – as long as it feels right for both of us.
Hard Limits
No public play – our dynamic stays our private secret. No blood, no permanent marks, nothing actually dangerous.
What I’m looking for
A Little/woman between 22 and 30 who’s also sporty or slim and has her own life together.
Someone who wants a genuine relationship: regular meetups (multiple times a week), daily communication, and the desire to be real partners outside the kink too.
Vienna and surroundings would be ideal because closeness matters to me.
If this sounds like you, drop me a message. Please tell me:
Your age and where you’re located.
How much experience you have with DDLG/ABDL. It's ok to be new to it, I am just generally courious and would love to hear about your expiriences and/or fantasies.
Looking forward to hearing from you ☺️