I am a fat hot wife in a wrong country
I’m Indonesian hot wife, but I’ve lived in Qatar, Bangkok, and the US. I’m 174 cm and 130 kg. I am married, and my Canadian husband and I have an open relationship.
When we lived abroad, it was so easy for me to find regular bulls. In the US, Qatar, and Bangkok, so many men were intensely attracted to me. I was celebrated and desired exactly as I am, and finding partners who loved my size was effortless.
But coming back to Jakarta feels like a sudden, suffocating demotion. To be completely blunt: local men here cannot handle this. They get incredibly intimidated by a tall, plus-size woman who takes up space. On top of that, the expat scene here is so small and scattered that it’s incredibly hard to connect with open-minded people organically.
I feel totally isolated in a city of millions. I know my worth, and I want to find a long-term fat admirer here, a regular bull with an international mindset who views my height and body as a prize, and who is completely down with the open marriage dynamic.
Anyone else experienced this kind of culture shock?