37 F4M. #EastMidlands #UK. Looking for butterflies 🦋
I am looking for a friend, dare I say, secret boyfriend. I would like us to build our own little escape where we can explore all facets of intimacy. With the right person, I know this can be amazing. I'd like to find something long-term, with that in mind, you should have some understanding of what it takes to make this work: consistency, communication, and a willingness to invest time. I love good morning and goodnight messages, regular chit‑chat, random pictures, and the occasional voice note or call. If your life isn’t set up for regular, steady contact, we won’t be a good match. Let's build a judgment free zone where we can just be ourselves and explore without fear.
A little about me: I’m Black, plus‑size, 5'6", married, and comfortable in my body. I want a man who genuinely appreciates that. I’m introverted (not shy), but once I feel comfortable with someone, I open up easily.
About you: Ideally 35–45, slim/muscular/dad bod, married, white, at least 5'7". You should live near the East Midlands or be able to travel and meet at least once a month. Above all, be kind, courteous, and emotionally mature. You don't have to have similar views or attributes to me, I think differences promote intrigue and debate.
If you respond, please tell me a little about yourself (I won't respond to low effort replies). I am not looking for a fleeting fling, FWB or anything in between. I am self-assured and know what I want, it would be great if you are the same and have some prior experience with this. I am not planning to end my marriage, nor do I want to end yours. I will not talk about anything sexual in the beginning. Let's give each other butterflies, let's be each others reason to smile 😊.