u/Ambition-unkown

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I've always followed the standard path, excelled in university and work, I am socially polite and respectful, self described intelligent, and worked towards a good profession with a position of respect, Ive treated past romances with respect and care, yet I've come to realise something has grown deep inside of me.

I've slowly discovered a passion for strong dominance and a desire to control, to dominatez to take what I want, when I want and how I want. Whether that's achieved through pure aggression, or through a double sided relationship of care, compassion and emotion, contrasted with the dark and sexual, is up to you.

The concepts of taking a sexual element into the realms of BDSM concepts is extremely alluring, and I note that the power transfer relies on an extremely strong trust, which further deepens connection.

About me 💥

I am 6'3", 85kg, with a self described athletic build. I live in Amsterdam with my own apartment and work as an engineer. I was born and raised in Australia with Dutch heritage but have been living here for around a year now. I speak a little Dutch, but my English is much better and my preference.

I have plenty of interests and hobbies, with lots of sports, socialising, cooking, and have loved travelling around Europe since living here. I enjoy deep and philosophical conversations, and am interested in politics and progressive, contrary to my kinks. Of which the following are of interest to me in this dynamic, TPE, bondage, CNC, Daddy little girl, orgasm control, anal training/sex, deep-throating, humiliation (I don't necessarily want/need all of these, but gives you an idea of what I'm seeking).

I've had experience with BDSM in prior personal and online dynamics but am seeking the right person to bring things to the next level.

About you ✨

Ideally living in the Netherlands, or willing to travel, I am seeking something in person but happy to begin online. Someone who is bubbly and fun, who is smart and independant, but is willing and wanting to hand over control to me under agreed terms.

Anyone aged under 30 would be preferred.

About us and the dynamic I'm looking for 🔥

The kinks I've discussed obviously provide an idea of what kind of BDSM dynamic I am seeking, and ideally I would like to work towards a longer term and exclusive relationship where our dynamic allows us to be the best versions of ourselves. While I want to do some intense sexual dynamics, you would be my princess/baby etc, and I am willing and wanting to support you emotionally through the dynamic.

I am also open to shorter commitments if something longer term or an exclusive relationship is not what you're seeking.

I take pride in being a strict but kind dominant, I mix having a genuine care and wanting the best for you with my crueler desires and needs.

While I've discussed heavy BDSM themes I am always respectful of hard limits, and expect pre discussed safety and consent, as well as continuous check ins and aftercare. With any dynamic, particularly a longer term, it is very important to maintain clear and expected communication.

I've got a photo of me on my profile, if you have any questions or want to discuss your thoughts or fantasies fell free to reach out. I look forward to receiving your message.