27 [F4A] At 26, I finally experienced a real orgasm
Yoww, I’m back again with another silly story hahaha
I just turned 27, and honestly, I’m really grateful for how life has been lately. But here’s a funny little milestone: at 26, I finally experienced what a real orgasm actually feels like. Kana bitawng mangurog naka 😭😂
And the hardest part? Once maka-feel naka unsay orgasm, magpangita diay ka. At this age, strange kaayo akong gibati kay mura bitaw kog ma-boang if I go a whole week without sex
The funny part is, the first person I experienced this with was my long-term FUBU. So basically, maghulat rajud ko kung kanus-a ko niya i-invite for sex. LMAO. Ginoo ko, naunsa naman ta ani
We met around February, and grabe, nagka-dugay mi, nagka-wild naman nuon ko. And nagkadugay, lights on na pud mi, which is funny kay di jud ko ganahan ug lights on before. Pero iba talaga pag maka-feel naka’g orgasm di na mag-matter if naay suga or wala. Char HAHAHA. 😭
I also realized how much foreplay matters. My ex was never really into it he was more of a “let’s get straight to it” kind of guy so I never really understood how much of a difference it could make.
With my FUBU, though, he’s a morning person, and apparently morning sex hits different. Girls, nindota lagi sa akong mood after. Bahalag kalagot na akong mga kauban, traffic, saba akong mga igsuon, or life itself is testing me after morning sex, mura kog bag-o gi-panganak HAHAHA
But honestly, this whole FUBU setup was unexpected for me. I never thought I’d end up in this kind of arrangement. We actually met because of something I posted here during one of my more vulnerable moments, and somehow, that’s how we ended up knowing each other
I also realized that people eventually move on. Maybe he’s already looking for someone new, someone “fresher” or whatever. Hahaha. And honestly? If he already found someone else, okay ra. I’m chill. No big deal. Mura pud tag batig nawng dah 😝
But I think this might be my first and last FUBU era. At least I can officially say I finally experienced an orgasm. 😂
And I learned a lot about myself too. I realized that sex can really affect your emotions and your attachment to someone, especially when you’re comfortable with them. I also learned that attraction and availability can make people make very different choices than you’d expect. Char HAHAHA.
So, starting this mid-year, no more dick for me. I’m taking a break from sex and going celibate for a while.
More importantly, I’ve realized I need to be more careful about sexual health. We weren’t always practicing safe sex, and that honestly scares me now. Especially when I accidentally saw something on his phone that made me realize he might be looking for other girls who are more his type too. So yeah… end of the FUBU era bahalag mingawon ko sa iyaha HAHAHAHA
No regrets, though. It taught me a lot not just about sex, but about myself, boundaries, attachment, and how I want to handle things moving forward.
Girls, protect yourselves, please. Get tested, communicate with your partners, and whenever possible, use condoms. Your peace of mind is worth it.
Girls, always keep this in mind: some boys will still go hunting for other girls even when you’re already good to them. You can be buotan, available, loyal, and make them feel like they’re the only one you’re sleeping with, but that doesn’t necessarily mean they’ll stop looking elsewhere.
Maybe it’s an ego thing for some men, the more girls they can attract, the bigger the ego boost. Meanwhile, kita mga girls, makuntento naman gud ta kung kinsay naa and if we genuinely like someone, we tend to focus on that one person. Sadly, not everyone thinks the same way.
So ayaw jud mo pag-assume nga just because you’re good to someone, they’ll automatically choose you and stop looking around. Protect your peace, protect your body, and know your worth. Char, gikan pa jud ni sa personal experience ha
Anyway, mao ra to. 😂
Thank you for attending my TED Talk.
RIP to my FUBU era. You will be remembered. 🫡