I think I'm finally going to pop my cherry this weekend ;)
I've finally opened up to my wife about wanting ass play and have gotten her to finger me and hand fuck me with a smaller starter dildo a couple of months ago. I hinted yesterday that I really want to play this weekend, and she seemed like she was into it. Told her my ass needed some attention, and she was being playful about it. The last time we played, I asked her if I was taking the whole thing, and she said yes. Since then, I've purchased a larger dildo and have used it twice on myself. I have also been using butt plugs to train. So now I have a harness and the dildo, but she doesn't know. She's probably thinking she'll be using the last toy, but I really want her to strapon and do this for real. Any suggestions about how I present the new toy and the harness? I don't want to freak her out. It's bigger than I am, FYI. Thanks!