What should I do? Need some advice. Read below.
I am a 27 year old female, and have been married for 6 1/2 years, but known my husband 8 years. We have a very vanilla sexual relationship. Even going a week or two at a time without having sex. That is what we have settled into, and I am not unsatisfied by that. But I do have a really strong desire to be spanked, not just for a sexual purpose, but for a therapeutic sense. I’ve wanted that for years, but I know there isn’t a way for me to bring this up with my husband. He wouldn’t do anything that he would consider harming me or hurting me. What should I do to cope with this? Anyone have any advice for me? I read erotic stories all the time about discipline in the home and marriage life, and it’s something I crave. What should I do to get some of what I need, without being able to ask my husband to do it?