u/Ana_lynx

So I've been dating this wonderful woman for a few years, and we get along great and have so much in common. Though we found out that one of those things is that we're both primarily subs. I'll switch and be more dominant from time to time, but it's not as fun for me as being submissive. She has wanted to try exploring her dominant side more, but is intimidated and doesn't really know where to start. She likes pegging me, and has enjoyed the scenes we've done together with her in the dominant role. But she hasn't felt as comfortable getting into it due to her inexperience, and gets worried about doing the "wrong" thing.

We've discussed seeing a pro domme together so she can learn a bit more, and we're both open to this. Buuut we're also both kinda broke, and it's a bit out of our price range.

Does anyone have any advice for things I can do to help her feel more comfortable in a dominant role? We've talked about it quite a bit, and she wants to try, but just gets something like decision paralysis when we actually start. I want to help her figure out her dominant side, but it's new territory for us both!