u/AndreasLa

Hey everyone! I recently got very curious about suger dating and asked a couple of questions about it here on the lifestyle reddit. And through that I got a woman saying she was desperate for money and would do anything for it.

Now, I’ll admit as a thirty-year-old virgin, I got tempted. Especially since she’s in London, which I’m going to in a week. But I don’t like the idea of her needing my money. That’s me taking advantage of her desperation and I don’t wanna do that, so I declined. But that got me thinking. Apps haven’t been kind to me. And I don’t wanna outright buy an escort. I don’t wanna participate in trafficking by accident or play into someone’s trauma. Don’t wanna do any of that.

But I don’t mind the honesty of something being more transactional. I just don’t want someone to depend on me, but rather rely on me. And so, I’ll admit that sex and such has become quite the mountain to climb over the years. But I was wondering if sugerdating could be a way forward with that? Do any of you have any experience with this? What are your thoughts?

Hello everyone! I hope this isn’t too dumb a question but I just got really curious. But how does one define sugardating? Like, by that I just mean: what are the ’rules’ sort to speak? How much expectation comes with it?

Like for example, and I apologize if this is crude. But say I’m with a girl and she’d like a purse, a bag, a shirt or whatever. And I say I’ll buy it for her if she’ll give me a blowjob. Is that sugerdating?

I’ve seen people mention allowances and such. And I suppose I’m just curious how much tit-for-tat there is. Like I assume the point of the sugerlifestyle is how clear it is? Like I want sex, you want money. I finance your lifestyle and you satisfy my desires? Again, I’m sorry if that is offensive! I’m coming at this from the outside with no real clue what this is.