u/Annual-Ad8425

Who gave you the right to decide who is a woman and who is not?

Who gave you the right to decide who is a woman and who is not?

Got transphobic comments on this sub just because I set boundaries and expectations

Seriously, what is wrong with some people here?

I opened my notifications and saw someone replying with transphobic insults, mocking my English, and basically saying I do not “deserve” expectations because I am trans.

First of all, I am a transsexual woman. If you do not even understand what that means, maybe do not comment on someone’s identity like you know everything. And who exactly gave you the right to decide who is a woman and who is not?

Just because I was born in the wrong body or because I cannot give birth to a child does not make me less of a woman or less deserving of respect.

If someone is not interested, that is completely fine. People can have preferences. But why the unnecessary hate, disrespect, and personal attacks? Since when did being trans make someone less human?

People here talk about maturity, companionship, class, and understanding, yet some act like school bullies the moment they see a trans woman with boundaries and expectations.

And honestly, attacking someone’s English is such a weak argument. Not everyone here is trying to pass an IELTS exam or is a native English speaker. If mocking grammar is the only comeback you have, maybe you never had a real point to begin with.

You can disagree with someone without insulting their identity, body, or existence. The amount of fake maturity and ignorance on this sub is honestly crazy.

u/Annual-Ad8425 — 9 days ago

God seriously what are these guys doing here? Is this a joke or what…?

Nice way to disappear lol.

His account was literally 4 days old, and he wasn’t even an SD — which honestly I appreciated because at least he was upfront about it from the beginning. But this is not what I was looking for.

I clearly mentioned I was looking for an SR/SD dynamic, and now I’m seriously confused and fed up with all this.

What are married men and these very young guys even doing here…? Half of them disappear after talking for a bit, and the other half don’t even understand what they want.

Maybe I understood SR the wrong way? Because I don’t want to be someone’s side chick or get dragged into weird situations.

Can somebody genuinely explain how this actually works nowadays…?

u/Annual-Ad8425 — 9 days ago

24 y/o Post-Op Trans Woman Looking for a Genuine Virtual SD 💕

Hi everyone 🌸

I’m a 24-year-old post-op trans woman looking to connect with a respectful, generous, and genuine virtual SD. I enjoy meaningful conversations, attention, consistency, and building a comfortable connection over time.

I’m available Monday to Saturday from 8 AM to 4 PM IST for chats, calls, virtual companionship, and getting to know each other better.

I value respect, honesty, communication, and mutual understanding. If you’re kind, mature, and interested in a long-term virtual arrangement, feel free to message me with a little introduction about yourself ✨

Serious and respectful people only please 💖

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u/Annual-Ad8425 — 9 days ago

24 y/o Post-Op Trans Woman Looking for a Genuine Virtual SD 💕

Hi everyone 🌸

I’m a 24-year-old post-op trans woman looking to connect with a respectful, generous, and genuine virtual SD. I enjoy meaningful conversations, attention, consistency, and building a comfortable connection over time.

I’m available Monday to Saturday from 8 AM to 4 PM IST for chats, calls, virtual companionship, and getting to know each other better.

I value respect, honesty, communication, and mutual understanding. If you’re kind, mature, and interested in a long-term virtual arrangement, feel free to message me with a little introduction about yourself ✨

Serious and respectful people only please 💖

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u/Annual-Ad8425 — 11 days ago

(Post op trans women here for Virtual SR) Am I wrong for preferring VC verification over sending random videos to a potential SD?

So I met a potential SD from Reddit and everything seemed normal at first. Then he asked for verification. I said that’s totally fine and told him I’m open to VC verification because honestly, I’d also like to know who I’m talking to.

At first he agreed, but then he asked me to send a video saying today’s date and my name. Like… what kind of verification even is that? That feels very one-sided to me.

The next day, instead of doing a VC, he kept insisting on the video again. When I repeated that I’m comfortable with VC verification, he suddenly got defensive and said things like: “you’re putting your own terms and conditions” “that’s not how agreements work” “don’t cheat others too”

And I’m just confused… how exactly am I “cheating” by asking for a live VC verification? 🫩

Then when I asked why he couldn’t just do a quick VC, he replied with: “okay then sing a song for me in the video” and said he knew I’d deny.

Like what kind of people are these? If you can’t do a simple VC verification, then why waste someone’s time?

In my opinion, VC verification is the safest and most fair option for both sides.

What do you guys think?

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u/Annual-Ad8425 — 11 days ago

24 y/o Post-Op Trans Woman Looking for a Genuine Virtual SD 💕

Hi everyone 🌸

I’m a 24-year-old post-op trans woman looking to connect with a respectful, generous, and genuine virtual SD. I enjoy meaningful conversations, attention, consistency, and building a comfortable connection over time.

I’m available Monday to Saturday from 8 AM to 4 PM IST for chats, calls, virtual companionship, and getting to know each other better.

I value respect, honesty, communication, and mutual understanding. If you’re kind, mature, and interested in a long-term virtual arrangement, feel free to message me with a little introduction about yourself ✨

Serious and respectful people only please 💖

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u/Annual-Ad8425 — 11 days ago

24 y/o Post-Op Trans Woman Looking for a Genuine Virtual SD 💕

Hi everyone 🌸

I’m a 24-year-old post-op trans woman looking to connect with a respectful, generous, and genuine virtual SD. I enjoy meaningful conversations, attention, consistency, and building a comfortable connection over time.

I’m available Monday to Saturday from 8 AM to 4 PM IST for chats, calls, virtual companionship, and getting to know each other better.

I value respect, honesty, communication, and mutual understanding. If you’re kind, mature, and interested in a long-term virtual arrangement, feel free to message me with a little introduction about yourself ✨

Serious and respectful people only please 💖

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u/Annual-Ad8425 — 12 days ago

Short-Term SR or Just a Temporary Connection?

Hie everyone,

So I got an SD from Reddit. Everything was going well, and he also clarified that he was enjoying the connection. But after 3 days, he got busy and his replies started slowing down. I could understand that.

Then after 5 days, he suddenly said he needed to travel because of work and would only be available at night. I then confirmed to him that I was going back to my hometown since I currently don’t have anything stable and can’t afford living alone. I had already conveyed this to him on day one before starting our agreement, and at that time he said he understood.

But after I confirmed that I was going back, he asked for some time. Later that night, he said we should stop this because it wouldn’t work, and that once he’s back, he’ll ping me again. I agreed to that. He also clarified that if I wanted another SD, I could go for it.

My question is: what would you call this kind of agreement/arrangement? Because as per my understanding, a sugar relationship is usually not this short, but I also can’t really call it short-term either.

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u/Annual-Ad8425 — 13 days ago