Dancers giving out their number?
Ok. So I am not your usual club patron, Im a bit more in the alternative crowd. I started going because I have a friend who dances back home. When I'm out of town i started going to strip clubs because I genuinely enjoy talking to all the dancers and having conversations. It also doesn't hurt that everyone is gorgeous and no one hates a lap dance every once in awhile.
Whenever I'm at the club I usually sit down and hang out, talk to whoever decides to sit down, and maybe get a dance, but not often. I always tip the girls whenever they sit down to talk. Sometimes a quick 10 or 20, but when I've spent a long time with a girl on a slow day I'll slip her a hundred for chatting and just having a nice time.
Recently in two different situations, I've had a couple girls give me their numbers after meeting them. This has really thrown me off. Usually when I get compliments at the club I take it with a grain of salt, these women are working and it's their job.
But these two situations have thrown me off. The first situation was a girl while I was out of town who gave me her number, I tried to give her plenty of outs, but she insisted. I told her I wasn't looking to do anything outside of the club, or spend more money, but she still gave me her number and seemed very excited. That situation was small because I had to go home soon after and nothing came of it.
But recently I was actually at a club in my own town which I usually never do. I met this dancer who is incredible, beautiful, cool, amazing to talk to and so funny. Ive met a few people I've really hit it off with, but never at home. This girl also insisted on giving me her number. Not the other way around, but we never even had a dance. I paid her a hundred because she spent a long time talking to me. I reached out against my own better judgement, and she responded, but very slowly. Shes regularly taken over a day to respond. It's hard to tell if it's regret or just her texting style. I'm trying to be respectful but I also really like her and feel totally out of my depth.
All this to say, any insight? Is it normal for you to give your number to a patron after a first meeting? Should I just leave this alone? So sorry for the long post, this just keeps bopping around in my head.