At my club they charge a flat fee for stage rent plus a percentage per dance. I often end up paying out $150 per shift, sometimes more, before tipping staff. How much are your club fees?
Hii I’m very interested in becoming a stripper but I have a few worries and questions…
Would I be attractive enough to strip??
I’m about to be 19, 164cm (5’4ish), 53kg (around 120 pounds I think). For my body, I’m pretty skinny and more on the petite side. I have small b cups and a small butt but I’ve been told it’s a nice shape. I also have a skinny waist.
Does skin colour matter?
I have very very fair skin. Probably whiter than most, even red heads. Would this matter? Or would I need to get spray tans?
How much experience in dancing would I need?
I would like to get some pole dancing lessons before hand but would this be enough? I’m physically fit and can move my body well but I would definitely need lessons for the pole.
What would auditions/ interviews look like for Australia? Specifically Sydney area?
If you read all of this thank you so much!!
My girlfriend and I typically go together, she’s bi and so it’s a way for us to spice things up. Just wondering if the experience from how we’re approached to how you guys act in general/lap dances/vip etc is different than if let’s say I was going to go solo. Especially in VIP (obviously varies by person but curious about how it’s approached from your end at least in terms of mindset!) For context we’re in Philly so it’s not that busy of a town and we’re in our 20s if it means anything
My club is going to be putting on a nerd night here in a month or so and I need song recs as I'm helping!! Already pulled some from Arcane and Valorant! I have Sasuke by Lil Uzi as well!
I have complicated feeling surrounding hanging out with other strippers while one I spend a lot of time with is working at the club that night. I guess I'd kind of hate for her to be upset, but for personal reasons I just want to hang with someone else.
Is this a fairly normal thing you guys experience? Does this bother you, or is it largely understandable?
What if they question it or come up to me and ask to hang with them? How do I go about responding to this in a way that's respectful?
I am an experienced stripper / exotic dancer with all the outfits, accessories and skills to return to working in a club. However the city I live in has a way too many strippers problem. This is a large Metropolitan City with about 10 clubs in the area. After a month of driving all over town and visiting most of these clubs (usually several times) all but 3 clubs have told me they're not hiring. 2 out of those 3 gave me a yes after auditioning but I'll have to wait for an opening once enough girls flake out.
And so I'm left wondering, **can I just be a cam girl stripper**? I already have a home studio and pole. I have no problems getting nude interacting with people, working regular hours and all that jazz. But my comfortable boundary stops at light petting / touching myself kind of things. I would not be comfortable masturbating or being penetrated as part of my job and I know myself better than to think I'll succeed in this field doing something I can't enjoy.
And let me be clear I fucking love dancing! I also have looks and costumes that fit into niche categories (goth, punk, bdsm, sci fi & fantasy) and would love to be able to push those boundaries harder than I can in a club environment. But I also know there's a good amount of startup investment to camming no matter what you do. I'm just trying to get a realistic perspective on if there's a market for stripper camming. Thanks!
Does anyone have a labiaplasty (I might also get a fat transfer to my majora)? I am curious how long before I could go back to work after surgery.
Ok. So I am not your usual club patron, Im a bit more in the alternative crowd. I started going because I have a friend who dances back home. When I'm out of town i started going to strip clubs because I genuinely enjoy talking to all the dancers and having conversations. It also doesn't hurt that everyone is gorgeous and no one hates a lap dance every once in awhile.
Whenever I'm at the club I usually sit down and hang out, talk to whoever decides to sit down, and maybe get a dance, but not often. I always tip the girls whenever they sit down to talk. Sometimes a quick 10 or 20, but when I've spent a long time with a girl on a slow day I'll slip her a hundred for chatting and just having a nice time.
Recently in two different situations, I've had a couple girls give me their numbers after meeting them. This has really thrown me off. Usually when I get compliments at the club I take it with a grain of salt, these women are working and it's their job.
But these two situations have thrown me off. The first situation was a girl while I was out of town who gave me her number, I tried to give her plenty of outs, but she insisted. I told her I wasn't looking to do anything outside of the club, or spend more money, but she still gave me her number and seemed very excited. That situation was small because I had to go home soon after and nothing came of it.
But recently I was actually at a club in my own town which I usually never do. I met this dancer who is incredible, beautiful, cool, amazing to talk to and so funny. Ive met a few people I've really hit it off with, but never at home. This girl also insisted on giving me her number. Not the other way around, but we never even had a dance. I paid her a hundred because she spent a long time talking to me. I reached out against my own better judgement, and she responded, but very slowly. Shes regularly taken over a day to respond. It's hard to tell if it's regret or just her texting style. I'm trying to be respectful but I also really like her and feel totally out of my depth.
All this to say, any insight? Is it normal for you to give your number to a patron after a first meeting? Should I just leave this alone? So sorry for the long post, this just keeps bopping around in my head.
Went to VIP with a stripper and during the interaction she repeatedly kissed my neck and said she loved the way I was touching/caressing her. We didn’t really get personal, didn’t exchange contact info, and I’m not assuming it meant anything. I’m mainly curious: is repeatedly kissing a customer’s neck pretty normal in VIP, or would you consider that outside the norm?
There was a dancer at a club tonight that said to me Que Rico. I don’t speak Spanish. What exactly does that mean?
Based in Portland Oregon ! I Would love feedback from yall❤️
So, any clubs in NYC good for dayshift? I recently retired from dancing and am just looking to fill up my day off (Friday) with something productive both physically and mentally.
I’ve worked for chain clubs in other states before so I’m not opposed to that and I’m totally fine with gown clubs. Any help would be greatly appreciated 💕
Disclaimer: I’m not criticizing or demeaning dancers, just here to start a healthy debate.
Simply because the entire concept just takes advantage of lonely men and emasculates them by taking their money. If a guy wants a hot chick he can just go on a dating app or approach them in public he can even get in incredible shape by going to the gym and dress nice to elevate his chances. That’s like going to 7 eleven to buy a pint of ice cream for $4 rather than going to dollar tree to get the same thing for a $1.50. The strip club is a complete scam in that sense.
Not only that most of those girls like a good number of them have boyfriends, husbands, or guys that they just see regularly they met outside of the club that dig them out while their regulars are wasting thousands on these girls just to get blue balls. While the patrons of the club are waiting for them on the floor the dancers are all in the locker room on their break gossiping about the guys they’re seeing I even have seen in stripper grip page on instagram making memes and jokes about the guys they’re seeing entertain in the club. This has become very emasculating to men we gotta do better guys. It’s really sad men don’t even realize it.
Admittedly I used to go but after I got laid I was like man…that is money I’m never gonna get back. I don’t think it’s the girls fault though, they can do whatever they want but men just let their lust control them so much that they waste their resources for empty pleasure.
I always thought if this ever happens since dancers see so many guys everyday they must meet some they’re attracted to then it eventually leads somewhere. I know there are risks involved doing that so the women just avoid it in its entirety but some keep it on the down low I assume.
My club installed a fuck ass juke box and now the fuck ass men can play their fuck ass music. I don’t wanna go on stage if I can’t dance to MY music sometimes anymore this is stupid. I hate it. We had to change how we do dances bc it’ll randomly changes in the middle of the song 🧍🏾♀️stupid ass juke box 😭
Hey everyone :3 I just moved from Oregon to Los Angeles (Hollywood specifically) and was wondering if any of you beautiful girls know of some good clubs out here. I’ve applied to a bunch such as The Body Shop and Seventh Veil but I was wondering if there’s any good money making ones. Thank you guys xoxo 💞
Genuine question for anyone who’s worked in clubs or knows the business:
Do dancers make more money at topless clubs or fully nude clubs?
My gut says fully nude = more money, just because it sounds like a more “premium” experience… but I’ve also heard the opposite, that topless clubs can actually bring in more because:
On the flip side, I’ve heard fully nude clubs:
So now I’m curious what actually matters more in real life:
If you’ve danced (or worked at a club), what’s been your experience? Is one clearly more profitable, or does it totally depend on the club?
Trying to separate myth from reality here 👀