I recently saw a dancer comment that giving lapdances to a guy on jeans is really rough... so what do dancers prefer clients wear? Anything too thin and ur gonna feel it while dancing on him and anything too thick like jeans is gonna be too rough? Is formal work pants the go to attire for the club? Fill me in
i work at a full nude club, i read the contract before deciding to be independent contractor. my understanding, that means i control my performance. they do suggest that i get fully nude by third song,
but the dj is pressuring me. telling me i HAVE to be naked by third song, that management will fire me if i dont.
i make good money, all from vip/privates. im new to stage performances, so i imagine ill be more comfy w that as i go on. its not like im not making them money, so im just extremely anxious and him pressuring me completely ruins my confidence on stage. its also not like i never get naked, i definitely do in private/vip when its actually worth the money to me. but getting nude for $5 of stage tips just feels bad.
i talked to manager, he said hes the only one who can fire me and its not the biggest deal if i dont get nude on stage. idk. i really dfw this dj guy. is this legal?
Wanting to go to one but nervous, wondering if a woman there would make me sniff/lick/clean her feet but I donāt even know how I would bring it up or how it would be received
Any advice would be great
It is not safe to leave the club with anyone! I donāt recommend it at all! but If you are leaving the club with someone else even if you are taking an uber PLEASE let someone know who you are with and where you are going!!! get the license plate if u can and share your location! we just lost a fellow dancer i have copied and pasted the article please read:
āSHE WALKED OUT OF A SOUTH FLORIDA NIGHTCLUB. THREE DAYS LATER, SHE WAS FOUND IN BISCAYNE BAY.
THE DEATH OF KEISHA NICOLE JONES
Miami-Dade County, Florida | June 29, 2026
Thirty-one-year-old Keisha Nicole Jones had recently moved from Detroit, Michigan, to South Florida.
According to her father, Richard Furlow, she was working as an exotic dancer while trying to redirect her life and build a better future.
Instead, her life ended under circumstances that remain unanswered.
On the morning of Friday, June 26, 2026, Keisha was last seen leaving Dean's Gold, a gentlemen's club in North Miami Beach, at approximately 6:00 a.m.
Investigators determined that she left the area in a rideshare and later traveled to Scarlett's Cabaret in Hallandale Beach.
Surveillance footage captured Keisha outside the club holding hands with an unidentified man.
That was the last confirmed sighting of her.
Three days later, on the morning of June 29, 2026, Keisha's body was discovered floating in Biscayne Bay near the NOAA research facility on Virginia Keyāapproximately 21 miles from where she was last seen.
As investigators worked to determine what happened, the case drew the attention of federal authorities.
The Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) assumed the lead role in the investigation, while local agencies deferred operational updates to federal investigators.
As of July 2026, authorities have not publicly released Keisha's cause of death, have not ruled her death a homicide, and have not identified any suspects.
Investigators and Keisha's family are asking for the public's help identifying the unknown man seen with her in surveillance footage and determining how she ultimately ended up in Biscayne Bay.
If you have any information regarding the death of Keisha Nicole Jones, please contact the FBI at 1-800-225-5324.
Someone may hold the missing piece that explains Keisha's final hoursā via the vivid faces of the vanished
Ik theres strict rules abt not recording in strip clubs. But do strippers cam for their online fans for dough ofc. If so can anyone direct me to the site? I find pole dancing extremely hot and would love to see it online since i live in a conservative country. To the strippers reading this, thank you for being literal goddessesš
Ever since I started losing fat and gaining muscle customers seem more intimidated by my typical approach. Maybe Iām coming off as gruff instead of sarcastic? Younger guys love itā¦ unfortunately Iām not their usual type and the middle aged/older clientele is who Iām typically with. Am I getting too fit for the job?
Edit: also recently been worried about being super light. Normally Iām tanner but have been struggling with my skin not producing as much melanin suddenly. Once someone even asked if I was white, it really honestly took me aback because Iām black.
i know there are not a lot of travel-friendly clubs š so pls help a gurl out
our owner told us during an after work meeting last weekend that due to our states liquor laws, we are not allowed to show any inkling of ass, no thongs, no cheeky bikini bottoms, no booty shorts if itās too cheeky, etc. or else the club could lose our liquor license. all the other clubs in town that sell alcohol and have either nudity or partial nudity are supposedly in the same boat. we are also no longer allowed to remove our top/slide it to the side during lap dancesā¦boobs and ass must be covered at all times.
last night they made everyone either change into something more modest (one girl literally put back on her biker shorts she came into work in), or wear a jacket or opaque covering over our outfit if it wasnāt allowed/if we didnāt have appropriate bottoms to change into. there seemed to be a lot of miscommunication and confusion about what was allowed when we had the meeting about dress code. i literally bought a pair of cheeky tie bikini bottoms (i normally wear thongs) off a girl bc i didnāt have anything else to wear and i was told they would be okay, but i found out later that i canāt even wear those bottoms either and i had to tie my pashmina around my waist for the rest of the shift, and was even asked to let other girls borrow it for when they went up on stage if they didnāt have an ass covering.
i know that technically the club probably shouldāve been enforcing this dress code the whole time since we do sell alcohol here, but it just still seems super strict for us to still be a strip club..we all just look like customers or bottle girls with stripper heels now. curious if any other clubs have been through this and how youāve navigated it. especially when it comes to outfits and selling dances, iād love some advice on what i can wear and how to sell fully clothed lap dances lol
thanks for listening
I was browsing through a sub and saw one of the dancers talking about not having reliable transportation and not wanting to rely on Uber to get to and from her club. Someone in the thread told her hire an Uber and offer them under the table to transport off the app. This got me thinking, I'm in emergency services so I'm reliable, safe and trustworthy due to my job. I have most nights off due to my schedule and could always use extra cash.
Would something like a personal driver be something dancers would use, and how would I go about getting my info out there in my city? I don't go to strip clubs and I doubt a dancer wouldn't even think about letting a customer do this.
Hey my beauties, Iām wondering if any of you that read this have been diagnosed with MS or some other similar form of neurological disorder that can cause neuropathy etcā¦ and how you stay safe in your physical state, dizziness, neuropathy, leg heaviness, headaches, fatigue etc. everyone has different symptoms with MS but curious how you guys maneuver through this life and how it affects you after your shifts.
I'm a customer and I'm interested in knowing how much the club is taking for different club activities (lap dance, VIP, stage etc..). I want to know so that I can properly adjust my tip to align with what I actually want to give the ladies. IDK I just feel better knowing.
But, I do wonder if this is a forbidden subject that could get the strippers in trouble with club management. Sure, I could test the OTC waters so that they take all of it home, but at this time that's not my thing.
A man goes to a club known for high mileage lapdances. He goes commando.
He gets a dance. He doesn't mention that hes commando (under khaki pants) He has no idea if he'll have an orgasm, as hes never had a lapdance before.
The stripper gives him a high mileage dance, grinding on his penis.
He has an orgasm. He pushes her away as he's suddenly very sensitive. She laughs about it.
Has he violated the dancers rights?
Iāve had some great private experiences in the past and have always thought it would be hot to buy a girls panties at the end to remember her by.
Would asking to buy a pair of underwear be over the line?
Iām a little drunk and high lol so Iāll probably remove this when I wake up but I had too much fun tonight! itās been a while since Iāve done this š¤Ŗš¤
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Iām heading back to the club after taking about 6 months off, but this time Iām coming back pregnant! š
Iām currently 18 weeks, starting to show, and would love to hear from anyone whoās danced while pregnant.
Any tips or tricks for making decent money while pregnant? Things that worked well for you? Things youād avoid? How did customers generally react?
Also, after being out of the game for a short while, is there anything you wish youād remembered or refreshed yourself on before going back? Any advice for getting back into the swing of things after a long break?
Iād love to hear your experiencesā¦.good, bad, or unexpected. Thanks girls and Iām so excited to be back ā¤ļø
Hi! On 29th Iām supposed to go to a strip club thatās like 1 hour away from the city I live in. I work minimum wage now, I go to university and my manager is a cšønt thatās making me feel miserable, I cry before my shifts with her. One night I was like āscrew it, Iām gonna send in an application, if they take me in, itās meant to be.ā And- they took me in based on pictures and measurements and some chatting with me.
I thought it was a great idea, that I wouldnāt mind it because when I ran out of money I used to sell my feet so I thought this would be better than selling my body like this. But now as itās getting closer, Iām starting to have doubts.
Thatās why Iād like to ask, do you regret becoming a stripper? Do you feel like your self worth dropped? Or your āvalueā? I keep telling myself that itās just for money for my education (because it actually is, my plan was to drop the minimum wage and live off the stripper salary) and that Iām not the person who is going to work there, that we are separate personas. But then the fear hits me. Also, Iām afraid that I will take it and a few months in I will realize I canāt do it, how hard is it to leave? Iām scared of quitting the minimum wage job alsoā¦ Thank you girlsā„ļø stay safe
Are there any clubs where the customers arenāt allowed to touch you and/or take pictures or videos inside the club? I only heard of one nyc club that implements those rules but I was wondering if other clubs do the same
I've always ever tossed ones up on stage but I'm wondering if dancers appreciate 5's or even 10's over small bills (giving the same total amount) because it's less to pick up at the end of their run? Or would they expect the same frequency of tips? Thoughts? Obviously, more bills looks more aesthetically pleasing but idk
I need to remind myself of this too. Value yourself. When you do you'll attract people that value you too. Regardless if you are a dancer, OF model, escort or any kind of sex worker, even when it's purely transactional, that has a priceless value. People are willing to spend money on things that have little lasting value at all, so don't ever undersell yourself just because a a loud crowd demands free or cheap. Those are the kind of people that don't see any value when they look at themselves in the mirror. Happy Monday š