PSA TO NEW DANCERS
Here's what you need to know
None of the dancers are happy to see you at the club
Money is tight and a lot of seasoned dancers are leaving with sub 200$ at an average night. So no one is going to be excited for you or surprised that it’s your first time ever in a strip club. They are irritated not because theyre catty, but because the manager is making hiring decisions regardless of the fact that the dancers are struggling to make money as is and clubs are still at max capacity of dancers.
Don’t be overly eager to make friends
Dancers will tend to be cold to you. If you stick around they will open up. Don’t come in the club trauma dumping and telling your whole story.
No one wants to be the one that was too nice to you and you end up latching onto them the whole night because you don’t know anybody and are anxious.
Most dancers don’t want to talk on the floor or have the open seat next to them occupied by another dancer for very long. Especially if they don’t know you.
Don’t come in your first day asking for tips and advice. Nobody trusts you yet and they and you are their competitors. Why would they put you on to all their game when they don’t even know if you’re mentally stable yet??
If you’re giving extras: fingering, touch dick etc. People will catch on quickly its not a secret. people will see you as fucking up the bag for everyone and will talk shit about you.
Be grown. Even if you’re a teenager, in this environment you are an adult. No one will mother you, and people may take advantage of you. This lifestyle is expensive. Strangers are not entitled to give you rides, alcohol, hits of their vape etc. Generousity between dancers is reciprocal.
If you can withstand that and remain chill, normal and self regulated people will begin to befriend you over time.